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My wife has a higher education than I do, but I make 5X the amount she does annually. But she had her own place and paid her own bills before we met. Some jobs such as hers are focused on public service and helping others.....and public servants don't make anything close to what they deserve to make.
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Or: (I've noticed guys do this more) not knowing how to use a knife to scoop up the last food bits. If anyone can explain that I'd greatly appreciate that Quote:
Honestly I don't mind either way. Ideally the girl wouldn't be horrible with finances but at the end of the day if she makes more money than I do, then that's amazing. My good buddy is working at a mid-sized bank as a mortgage banker. He is in the process of selling his i8 and a few other cars (yes) to buy a 458 before March. Now yes he is a hard working man, but his words: "transfer to a school with a med school and marry a cardiologist, it's amazing. they work long hours so you don't deal with their bs often and they make bank" Quote:
On other news, at happy hour I overheard the best conversation: Guy 1: "dude she's hot but she's dating (not him)" Guy 2: "soccer is more fun when there's a goalie in the game, just shoot your shot bro" |
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Went on a first date to lunch. Ordered guacamole dip. Chic started talking about her STD tests, and heroin addict ex. Said she was waiting for the results. Last thing I want to discuss while eating guacamole dip is your fucking STD tests.
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Jesus.... I would've just left. How old was she?
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02-01-2020, 10:03 PM | #5222 | |
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I know I sound shallow but being able to live in a nice house in a desirable city, having nice cars, going on nice vacations, eating at good restaurants, paying for my future childrens' college and other shit etc. matter a lot to me. Beyond the added income, you know the girl grew up with similar values and has similar ambition/drive in life.
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I'd argue that is the time to discuss this: you are given the warning before getting involved
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Life is so much more peaceful and have a lot more money and time to do things that I want to do when I'm not dating. I seriously can not go back to the plantation for some ass. I find it better to just hire a pro for their services whenever I get the urges.
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02-02-2020, 12:56 AM | #5225 | |
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WTF She'll probably also blame you and your selfishness for not wanting to get involved with her.
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One I dated years ago was sort of bothered by it - she couldn't afford the restaurants I wanted to go to. But we did go to her local (and cheap) Korean place she loved (it was good). In the end we agreed that she pay when we went there, and I'd pay elsewhere which was good - she didn't have to feel bad, and *I* got to go to some restaurants I enjoy too. So while some degree of parity where they can contribute (first class tickets for 2 to Europe don't come cheap!) would be good but I think there's many things that would come before that for me. Things like has a pulse, likes me, can sleep through heavy snoring - minor things like that. |
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And I haven't run into the "cougar/boy-toy" effect, but I don't doubt its existence. I can't imagine such an "arrangement" being emotionally satisfying, but if she's really shallow and that's what she wants, she'll find it. Such a woman wouldn't be of interest to me anyway, so not a loss for me.
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I feel similarly. Getting to my late 20s and seeing more of my boys getting into relationships. Seems like too much effort and too much of being one another's emotional tampon. I'll take it seriously when I meet a girl who has LTR potential. Otherwise not gonna waste my time and money, would rather spend my time on my own hobbies and with friends.
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