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one of my exes on a date said she remembered what i wore the first time we met we met as my friend's older sister lol it wasn't even like a date or anything Quote:
you know you shouldn't, you know you won't, but you end up doing it anyway and anything else just doesn't feel right "going to a nice movie date after a nice dinner is a porsche thing. alfa romeo guys love waking up in the morning not knowing if she'll make you breakfast or if that skillet ends up very close to your balls" |
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Do you even need to ask? LOL.
You have to remember one thing, women are irrational. Period.
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How long ago again was it when this happened to her? If it's fairly recent (last couple years)....it will still affect her. But it will get better over time. If you think she's worth it, you just live in the moment and try to avoid situations that may prompt her to think along those lines. She's been through a traumatic experience. But if she doesn't get better with those types of episodes, you shouldn't have to deal with it. I would give it a little more time and see how soon she reacts that way again...that is if she does. You can gauge then if it's something she will get past....or if she's going to be a drama queen about it everytime.
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Roger that. And you feel like a chump for getting your hopes up. Hang in there, pal.
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Nah, co-habiting. It feels like about 65% married. We've both been married before and neither of us has a strong need to try it again in our mid-50s.
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Let's just say that a man will probably never fully appreciate the sublime and mysterious workings of the female soul. At least, that's what I'd say if my girlfriend were within earshot.
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not my worst date, but definitely up there. it's both a blessing and a curse that i'm good at acting interesting, but i just didn't feel that connection from either side. definitely a chill girl, but we're polar opposites. she's a netflix and blankets kinda girl and i'm a "i gotta be active 24/7 otherwise i'll hate myself" kinda person... too chill, if anything. |
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Lol....but in 15+ years...those roles could reverse. Probably not though. My wife has always been a "stay-in" type with a small circle of friends. Me....well you know how I am. 3 maybe 4 hours of sleep at night and then I'm climbing the walls to try and find something to do. But it works out in the long run. We both compromise....plus I think every couple needs time away from each other for themselves. I get mine usually while she is sleeping. On the weekends...I'm usually up no later than 3:00am and she sleeps in until 10:00am or so. So I have plenty of time to do my own thing.
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On the opposite end of the spectrum, their lack of knowing what I know about me, probably keeps me out of a lot of trouble and my sanity intact. |
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It threw me off because she's usually pretty relaxed about things. |
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I'll have to reflect and get back to you on this man I also have been considering the potential aspect of me looking for someone when I myself not really am in that position. Think of like a 300lb obese guy chasing after gym bunnies. That does mean I have to dig deep and I don't really even know where to start with that lol I really don't know, you asked a pretty good question |
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