I need to find a man!

[jpnh]

Originally Posted by F87LUV

You guys all say that but I don't see this actually transpiring in reality. My friends and I are all 30+ professional women, own our homes, work, etc etc and all single. It really doesn't seem to matter to the men we meet. A successful man doesn't necessarily need a woman with all of that. He'll go for the hottest woman possible that's smart enough to manipulate him into locking it down by using her sex appeal/appearance and/or nagging him to death for a ring.

Well....you DO live in NYC.....that TENDS to suggest a lot of the why......

I worked in NYC for a while so I actually do have something to base that observation on.

I have a brother who lives in NYC and while he loves NYC he acknowledges that the people suck much more often than people in MANY other parts of the country.....men AND women

[jpnh]

Originally Posted by Lups

Well, men are the same as are us women too everywhere, so I'm using you as my intelligence pool, she isn't moving away.

I disagree strongly with the above.....men and woman are to a significant degree socialized to adopt certain values.....and usually lack of morals

These are largely learned behaviors.

I've done a bit of travelling/moving about the US and women on each of our coasts tend to be a LOT more materialistic/selfish than those that grew up in other parts of the US

Most of the swedish and dutch woman I've known were no where near as materialistic as american woman are.

[Lups]

Originally Posted by jpnh

Well....you DO live in NYC.....that TENDS to suggest a lot of the why......

I worked in NYC for a while so I actually do have something to base that observation on.

I have a brother who lives in NYC and while he loves NYC he acknowledges that the people suck much more often than people in MANY other parts of the country.....men AND women

The word suck seems to be an issue here. That isn't a bad thing.

(I trust think the issue is that us humans are not meant to be happy so we make ourselves miserable.)

[The Choosey begger]

I hope none of you end up like this guy but at the Helsinki airport.

[AW335TT]

lol at #3 .. if a guy posted something like all the girls would be tripping out, calling him shallow.

girls always talk about tall guys but if a guy says he doesn't like fat girls.. everyone loses their minds.

[Lups]

Originally Posted by anglo

I hope none of you end up like this guy but at the Helsinki airport.

That's Phil, right?

And no, as said, I wouldn't try to find a mate from car guys (too clingy with their cars), or a guy from an other country. I just needed tips on where do the regular, nice guys spend their time outside work.

She doesn't need a millionaire, and she can very well take care of herself and her horse and she even has a place to live, has clothes that cover her up (thanks again @asbsecu !) and what she looks for in a guy is a sense of humor, and settling down. Knowing her wild sex would be mentioned too.

So I'm looking for an unicorn storage, where do they hang out? And anglo you can just list here where you hang out too, it'll narrow it down nicely.

[jpnh]

Originally Posted by Lups

That's Phil, right?

And no, as said, I wouldn't try to find a mate from car guys (too clingy with their cars), or a guy from an other country. I just needed tips on where do the regular, nice guys spend their time outside work.

She doesn't need a millionaire, and she can very well take care of herself and her horse and she even has a place to live, has clothes that cover her up (thanks again @asbsecu !) and what she looks for in a guy is a sense of humor, and settling down. Knowing her wild sex would be mentioned too.

So I'm looking for an unicorn storage, where do they hang out? And anglo you can just list here where you hang out too, it'll narrow it down nicely.

You need unicorn storage

[F87LUV]

Originally Posted by jpnh

Well....you DO live in NYC.....that TENDS to suggest a lot of the why......

I worked in NYC for a while so I actually do have something to base that observation on.

I have a brother who lives in NYC and while he loves NYC he acknowledges that the people suck much more often than people in MANY other parts of the country.....men AND women

Yup. Revolving door for attractive and successful people. People are always looking for the bigger/better thing without a care as to who's feelings they might stomp on.

[jpnh]

Originally Posted by F87LUV

Yup. Revolving door for attractive and successful people. People are always looking for the bigger/better thing without a care as to who's feelings they might stomp on.

Bingo

[Lups]

Originally Posted by AW335TT

lol at #3 .. if a guy posted something like all the girls would be tripping out, calling him shallow.

girls always talk about tall guys but if a guy says he doesn't like fat girls.. everyone loses their minds.

Well, some of us are tall. It just doesn't happen when the guy is shorter than you.

Being fat tells you a lot of things you want to either to avoid or to go for.

Let's play a word game. Chef. Pair it up with the word vegan.

Who wants to date that?

I know there are medical issues behind being overweight but for me, I prefer an active life. If my wannabe partner wants to sit at home in front of a tv, that's never gonna work.

And we already figured out that I was tripping with my math. 182 cm will be enough, so 6ft. He can stand on his toes for official pics.

[Lups]

Originally Posted by jpnh

You need unicorn storage

god, no, all my other friends are worse than most guys here.

Originally Posted by F87LUV

Yup. Revolving door for attractive and successful people. People are always looking for the bigger/better thing without a care as to who's feelings they might stomp on.

Can't help you there. But honestly the men are not the only ones with issues these days.

Originally Posted by jpnh

Bingo

No win for anyone.

[The Choosey begger]

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[AW335TT]

Originally Posted by Lups

Well, some of us are tall. It just doesn't happen when the guy is shorter than you.

Being fat tells you a lot of things you want to either to avoid or to go for.

Let's play a word game. Chef. Pair it up with the word vegan.

Who wants to date that?

I know there are medical issues behind being overweight but for me, I prefer an active life. If my wannabe partner wants to sit at home in front of a tv, that's never gonna work.

And we already figured out that I was tripping with my math. 182 cm will be enough, so 6ft. He can stand on his toes for official pics.

I get what you are saying and I agree with it. I was just pointing out the double standard.

Im attracted to a very specific body type and overall look. Even the smallest differences are deal breakers.

[Nkc]

You had me at wild sex.

[Lups]

Originally Posted by AW335TT

I get what you are saying and I agree with it. I was just pointing out the double standard.

Im attracted to a very specific body type and overall look. Even the smallest differences are deal breakers.

One of my best friends married a woman who's two inches taller than I, or him. That clause was on me, and as said shoes. She's sadly like me, remembering a party she has to attend and the only dress clean needs black heels. The options in any given day for a size everyone else also buys are only high heels.

So fine, if a guy is fine being 4" shorter because of shoes she wouldn't mind. Hell, I'm an inch taller than the guy I married in every pic ever taken because I don't shop either and I always toss the tormenters after I have had to wear them.

So pathetic, I know.

[Lups]

Originally Posted by Nkc

You had me at wild sex.

How are you helping nkc (yes I know!!)?

Hey I am a great master of teaching things verbally.

[jpnh]

Originally Posted by Lups

The word suck seems to be an issue here. That isn't a bad thing.

(I trust think the issue is that us humans are not meant to be happy so we make ourselves miserable.)

Depends on context as usual......

So....if you're not going to pony up the photo's then......I did notice you mention she owns a horse........so in lieu of photos tell us about her owning a horse....

what sort of horse and rider are we talking about?


Eventer
Hunter/Jumper
Dressage Queen
Western
<insert other>

....I'm off to the barn.....lookiing forward to the response

[Nkc]

Originally Posted by Lups

How are you helping nkc (yes I know!!)?

Hey I am a great master of teaching things verbally.

Hey you got my name right this time you dyslexic son of a twat. Well done.

Well I kinda fit your friend's criteria and I'm very open to the wild sex you mentioned. You never said anything about being married so I'm DTF. Hook a brotha up.

[Lups]

Originally Posted by jpnh

Depends on context as usual......

So....if you're not going to pony up the photo's then......I did notice you mention she owns a horse........so in lieu of photos tell us about her owning a horse....

what sort of horse and rider are we talking about?


Eventer
Hunter/Jumper
Dressage Queen
Western
<insert other>

....I'm off to the barn.....lookiing forward to the response

She just got it, the horse is an elderly one and has been a barn animal for years. She is just taking care of her and retraining her.

[Lups]

Originally Posted by Nkc

Hey you got my name right this time you dyslexic son of a twat. Well done.

Well I kinda fit your friend's criteria and I'm very open to the wild sex you mentioned. You never said anything about being married so I'm DTF. Hook a brotha up.

Lol, I did it!! Jei!! (an accident.)

No you don't. Too many cars, you're annoying and your wife would object a little too I assume. She's also like the only brunette in my country.

Good to see you around, nck. We seem to get along though we don't.

[jpnh]

Originally Posted by Lups

She just got it, the horse is an elderly one and has been a barn animal for years. She is just taking care of her and retraining her.

That suggests she has some history with horses?

Same question applies

Did she grow up with horses?

Was she a barn rat when she was a kid/before college?

[shoei]

Anna... Not again?? Seriously??!