New forum for Dads!

bartman32 · 02-16-2009, 12:36 PM

Hey anyone a new Dad? Even if you aren't a "new" Dad please share your success stories and advise on baby, marriage, etc.

Today there are LOTS of places for women to go to get advise about their children and pregnancy. Society expects women to raise the kids and it is still the abnormal for people to accept a father as just as capable of raising a child as a woman.

I REJECT that idea! I believe that "women's intuition" is simply the fact that they spend more time with their children. I think that society keeps fathers from being fully involved with their children and when they are involved its seen as abnormal. When a child cries how many fathers have heard "Where's Mommy?" I think once this happens its too easy for the father to just turn the kid over to the Mom.

My objective here is to create a safe place for men to share stories, successes, frusturations and advise with other men/fathers and work to create a society where those that want to be fully involved have a place to go to get more advise much like this forum does for BMW enthusiasts!

So from crying all night, to car seats, to marriage, relationsips and finances it's all open for discussion. Come join us at: http://s8.invisionfree.com/New_Dads/

This is my first forum, so PLEASE tell me what you think!

http://s8.invisionfree.com/New_Dads/

Bartman!

optimistic · 02-16-2009, 03:59 PM

I'm in.

bartman32 · 02-19-2009, 08:32 PM

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Originally Posted by optimistic

I'm in.

Thanks man! Please post something! The site is in dire need of content. Maybe some success stories! That time when you saw the kid really getting something he didn't before.

Anyone else?

JOSG328I · 02-20-2009, 01:01 AM

I'll be there in about 7 weeks so I'm in!

bartman32 · 02-20-2009, 11:05 AM

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Originally Posted by JOSG328I

I'll be there in about 7 weeks so I'm in!

Thanks. Please feel free to post now though! Really the preperation, and introspection you go through during pregnancy is part of being a Dad. I'm not trying to get into a right to life discussion but really once you decide you are having a baby, you start to think and act like a Dad. So feel free to post what you are up to now!

Thanks!

DenverJayhawk · 02-20-2009, 11:25 AM

got an 11 month old little girl. Can't wait to take her to an auto cross.

Neurorad · 02-20-2009, 01:53 PM

I have 3 kids, ages 1-5.

My wife pisses away 1-6 hours a day on online mommy forums.

I'm not getting sucked into that, no matter how helpful it is.

JOSG328I · 02-20-2009, 02:37 PM

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Originally Posted by Neurorad

I have 3 kids, ages 1-5.

My wife pisses away 1-6 hours a day on online mommy forums.

I'm not getting sucked into that, no matter how helpful it is.

So instead you piss away time on a BMW forum....

.

bartman32 · 02-22-2009, 08:48 PM

*Bump*

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bartman32 Colonel 108 Rep 2,317 Posts Drives: F87 M2 Join Date: Feb 2007 Location: The OC iTrader: (0) Garage List 2017 M2 [0.00]	New forum for Dads! Hey anyone a new Dad? Even if you aren't a "new" Dad please share your success stories and advise on baby, marriage, etc. Today there are LOTS of places for women to go to get advise about their children and pregnancy. Society expects women to raise the kids and it is still the abnormal for people to accept a father as just as capable of raising a child as a woman. I REJECT that idea! I believe that "women's intuition" is simply the fact that they spend more time with their children. I think that society keeps fathers from being fully involved with their children and when they are involved its seen as abnormal. When a child cries how many fathers have heard "Where's Mommy?" I think once this happens its too easy for the father to just turn the kid over to the Mom. My objective here is to create a safe place for men to share stories, successes, frusturations and advise with other men/fathers and work to create a society where those that want to be fully involved have a place to go to get more advise much like this forum does for BMW enthusiasts! So from crying all night, to car seats, to marriage, relationsips and finances it's all open for discussion. Come join us at: http://s8.invisionfree.com/New_Dads/ This is my first forum, so PLEASE tell me what you think! http://s8.invisionfree.com/New_Dads/ Bartman!
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optimistic Private First Class 5 Rep 136 Posts Drives: '07 E92 Join Date: May 2007 Location: Boston, MA iTrader: (0)	I'm in. __________________ Now: Monaco Blue/Saddle Brown E90 335i x-Drive \| 6MT \| ZPP \| ZSP \| ZCW \| iDrive \| Logic 7 \| HD Radio \| CA \| Sunshades \| PDC \| iPod Before: Space Gray/Black E92 328xi \| 6MT \| ZPP \| ZSP \| ZCW \| iDrive \| iPod \| Sirius
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JOSG328I First Lieutenant 19 Rep 377 Posts Drives: 2007 328I Sedan Join Date: Jan 2007 Location: Huntington Beach iTrader: (0) Garage List 2007 328I [0.00]	I'll be there in about 7 weeks so I'm in!
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DenverJayhawk Major 78 Rep 1,217 Posts Drives: 2006 E90 330i Join Date: Jul 2008 Location: Denver iTrader: (0)	got an 11 month old little girl. Can't wait to take her to an auto cross. __________________ 330i, Black Sapphire, 6MT, Sport, Active Steering, Flux Capacitor
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Neurorad Major 89 Rep 1,224 Posts Drives: 2017 340xi Join Date: Feb 2006 Location: Location, Location iTrader: (0)	I have 3 kids, ages 1-5. My wife pisses away 1-6 hours a day on online mommy forums. I'm not getting sucked into that, no matter how helpful it is.
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