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Then there's the group of "I only do anal to preserve my virginity" girls. I'm not sure that is how that works.
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Is that only after you do all the chores she wants you to do?
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10-04-2019, 01:05 PM | #4689 | |
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I've never understood it myself. Honestly, I'm super lucky. She doesn't ask me for anything. Which of course makes me want to do things for her. I don't really do "chores" for her. I did help her do some painting a couple of weeks ago, but I didn't mind. There are times when I help her with stuff, but she is far from the typical girlfriend. The whole doing stuff for each other is very mutual. She is constantly doing small things for me without me even asking. She brings me food to work, does my dishes, folds laundry and whatnot. Despite my posts earlier in this thread, I'm a really lucky guy. Last edited by King Rudi; 10-04-2019 at 01:13 PM.. |
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10-04-2019, 03:07 PM | #4690 | |
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Edit: (Note to Self) ......I need to start waking her up early as I'm a morning person! Wonder how that would go as she does like her sleep!
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10-05-2019, 03:03 PM | #4694 | |
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And that's without using an alarm clock for the last 20+ years! Weekends are the same.
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10-06-2019, 01:43 AM | #4695 |
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Met a girl tonight who was really nice, in a high earning profession, and reasonably cute.
Yet I'm being my douche self again. Commitment averse and wanting to play the field to find somebody hotter.
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10-06-2019, 03:46 AM | #4696 | |
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Guess it depends on what you want. When I was dating, I was up front that I wasn't looking for anything serious, but not adverse to seeing what could happen......but really just looking for everyone to enjoy themselves. My wife is very attractive and I've been told that by others. But I had dated plenty of what you could consider "Trophy Wife" material. But it was my wife's personality that put her over the edge for me. Who knows, this new girl could surprise you in how she may appeal to you later....total package wise. Either way....good luck. Sounds like she has some nice positives right out of the gate!
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Why do people always think about commitment on the first date? Pointless, worry about that later. Feel each other out (literally ) and see how it goes after a few dates at least. In the end, cute and sane always wins over hot and crazy (as far as actual GF vs. just hookups). Looks usually fade anyway. Not saying you should ever settle for someone, but always trying to find someone hotter might just lead you down a never ending road of dates that lead to nowhere.
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What's wrong with that? I have no intentions of ever marrying and plan on pumping and dumping until I croak.
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So I've been living with that hot widow for a few months and I apparently messed it up.
I've been in the dog house since Sunday and it looks like she's calling it quits. It's not something I did, but apparently it's my view on death. I believe it can happen at any moment and why worry about it. Well, she thinks that means I don't care about anyone. I'm trying to understand how that makes me a non-caring person. Can anyone help me understand? It's a shame. I really loved her. |
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11-07-2019, 05:27 AM | #4701 | |
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If you act in a reckless manner because you can be dead tomorrow, then I get it. Meaning you don't lead a healthy lifestyle or make poor life choices (drugs, dangerous behavior) because why bother if you might get hit by a bus tomorrow. If this is the case, then she feels that you are being selfish as those who love you will feel the pain of your death because you didn't care enough about them to take care of yourself. I can't respond to how to react without knowing the backstory - not trying to pry.
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its obvious that death is a very sensitive topic for her. she doesnt want to deal with it again with you. All you can do is talk with her again and let her vent and you can tell her how you feel and it was taken out of context. |
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We've had a lot of good times together and this is coming out of left field. I don't want to lose her, but I certainly don't want her to stay if she's unhappy. I'd rather her be happy without me instead of miserable with me. Sucks and sorry for venting guys. |
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11-07-2019, 10:00 AM | #4705 | |
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I agree with what NYAlpine said. Death is a tough subject for her but I honestly don't get what she thinks you should think or feel. Try and talk it out with her. She's traumatized over losing someone she loved but I don't get her being upset with you because you don't stress over dying. You got me I hope it works out.
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Next time the topic comes up, maybe reframe it in a way that goes "I'm not preoccupied with the thought of death, but I make sure to cherish every moment because you never know what'll happen even in a few hours"?
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I just don't want to worry about things that are out of my control. Being afraid of death isn't going to magically make it stay away. Don't get me wrong, when the time comes, I'm going to feel some anxiety/fear (I've had a couple of close calls), but I'm not going to worry about it in a daily basis. To me, love and death are separate. She thinks my thoughts on one subject are not inline with hers and it's causing a lot of tension. She even told me she was leaving. I don't understand. |
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