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Am I that guy?
I'm currently dating one and I'm loving it. She does talk about her dead husband from time to time, but I'm ok with it. She treats me really well and I'm really lucky to have her. It did take a long time for her to go from friend to something more though. That was a frustrating experience. |
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She has also had a failed 1.5 year relationship in the time between the death of her husband and now. That's how I'm taking it. She did invite me over to her neighborhood pool over the weekend saying it would be nice to have me there with her. I'm not able to go to her house though, because she isn't ready to explain to her kids who I am. |
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05-29-2019, 08:54 AM | #4162 | |
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05-29-2019, 09:01 AM | #4164 | |
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05-29-2019, 09:02 AM | #4165 |
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She became a widow about 3-4 years ago. It took about 5-6 months (I think). It was a lot of work though. I gave up and that's when she reached out to me saying she loved me.
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05-29-2019, 09:19 AM | #4167 | |
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I couldn't tell you how long the girlfriend and I were together before we were affectionate in front her children. Wasn't really something that we discussed, just the way it was. Now that they are well acclimated with me they are not bothered with it. We do get the occasional "GROSS!" when they see it. |
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05-29-2019, 09:25 AM | #4168 |
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now that school's out i'm pretty dateless actually - kinda figured it'd be like this but long hours on construction and suburbia isn't really treating me well. "breaking up" with that one girl that lives 15-20 mins away from me was a bad move but it is what it is
on the bright side, i'm putting in hella work and i'm getting paid pretty well because of over time. I'm actually looking to buy an E46 soon |
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05-29-2019, 11:51 AM | #4172 | |
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I look at it this way...I love my wife. But I also love my time apart from her. Both of us need our own space. Right now you are getting to play the "selfish - all about me" role!!
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05-29-2019, 11:53 AM | #4173 | |
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fug :I where/how does one go about meeting women without going out or sitting next to the cute ones in class?
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Well....Looks like she's coming over on Friday so I can make her dinner.
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