|
10-22-2020, 11:56 PM | #68 |
Private First Class
595
Rep 145
Posts |
Get her a bus pass
__________________
Current : 2007 Z4MC, 2010 F650gs, 2018 340i M Performance Edition, 2020 G310gs, 2009 128i
Past : 2001 325 cab, 2002 325xit, 1992 325 M tech ll appearance pack cab, 1990 325is, 1988 M3, 2012 328xit, 2009 M135i cab, 2016 M235i cab, |
Appreciate
1
King Rudi13154.00 |
10-23-2020, 01:18 AM | #69 | |
I'll get back to you
7559
Rep 2,132
Posts |
Quote:
__________________
2018 Stinger GT
2009 E90 N51 /Active Autowerke Stage 2 tune/BMW Performance Exhaust/ Countermeasure enthusiast. |
|
Appreciate
1
Turkish Pickle3084.00 |
10-23-2020, 06:22 AM | #70 | |
Major
1037
Rep 1,340
Posts |
Quote:
Back to the point, here's how to drive a BMW (and have your chick appreciate that): "Brush your boobies!". |
|
Appreciate
1
Soul_Glo13346.00 |
10-23-2020, 07:12 AM | #71 |
Colonel
3848
Rep 2,873
Posts |
So, I'm waiting for my home office to stop barfing on the new 'upgrades' and amusing myself with this; my thoughts:
1-asking for relationship advice on the OTDB means you are either hopelessly doomed, or just needing another round of self-abuse. Buy a magic 8-ball for better results. 2-regardless of the topic, issues where one of you is making the other uncomfortable benefit from serious talk (unless it is a blunder or s/t you'd readily change); when it is bothering both of you this becomes essential. Just avoiding the situation only reinforces the tension on the relationship. 3-driving is unquestionably the most dangerous activity most people engage in, and you really need to reserve your 'I'm a super driver' rap for when you are alone in the car. That 'are you dead? how many accidents do I have' reasoning works just as well for Russian Roulette. If you are making passengers uncomfortable, then that is a form of failed driving skill in routine commuting (not that I don't sometimes take this 'fail', but I don't try to dress it up as really being better). I try to use my commutes to work on modal skills, rather than than FTD. Any clod can brake hard on the street, but can you bring the car to a smooth imperceptible stop? and can you do it by gauging and applying a steady brake pressure, without needing to modulate? Try taking turns this way too - smooth steady input to a stable point that will hold a good line all thru the turn. Or placing your wheels exactly where you intend using all those pavement wrinkles and patch spots as targets. 4-careful about inviting her to a driving school if your ego is as fragile as it appears. There are many great stories among instructors of guys who bring the little lady out to impress her, but end up with her outdoing them in terms of skill and speed. That crap about your superior male 'spatial ability' is reductionistic nonsense; There isn't that much difference, and driving (especially on the street) is much more about tactics than skills anyway (that's why young adults are MOST risky, and older adults are LEAST risky, despite all the physio traits favoring the young). And I think that link should read "brace your boobies" |
Appreciate
6
|
10-23-2020, 12:58 PM | #72 | |
Lieutenant Colonel
13154
Rep 1,965
Posts |
Quote:
|
|
10-23-2020, 01:43 PM | #74 |
Banned
1636
Rep 2,995
Posts |
You want to get more serious with her, but can't have an honest discussion about your driving? That's a bad sign.
|
Appreciate
3
|
10-23-2020, 01:46 PM | #75 |
Banned
7929
Rep 1,923
Posts |
|
Appreciate
5
|
10-23-2020, 07:27 PM | #76 |
Captain
1930
Rep 869
Posts |
Already divorced once before. Been married now for 10yrs. I learned to set boundaries early on. It works, but it’s hard.
__________________
2018 F80 M3. YMB/BLK. ZCP. Three Pedals.
"Education will never be as expensive as ignorance." |
Appreciate
1
upstatedoc7558.50 |
Post Reply |
Bookmarks |
|
|