Dating - Good/Bad Experiences

[Sara]

Originally Posted by MKSixer

Congratulations, Sara!!!!

Thanks!

[ASAP]

Originally Posted by Dang3r

Just out of curiosity and only if you don't mind... was this intentionally and planned or an air-to-air refuel accident?

is it an accident tho if its successful

[///d]

Originally Posted by ryan stewart

Do they already know where she will be stripping?

Funny you say that, because mom was a stripper for a few years.

For the record that's not how I know her lol after her stripping gig she joined the Army and I met her while at AIT. However it did not surprise me when I learned she used to be a stripper. Now she "found God" and seems to be doing well, so good for her.

[chinniciF32]

Thread revive

This was a good thread, anyone have any good/bad/scary date stories?

Summer 2023 - Started chatting with this girl on Chispa while I was out in Block Island, she lived in Long Island (28 and Honduran) and we agreed to a date as soon as I returned to the main land.

Date went ok, I picked her up at her house and drove us to the liquor store and then the beach. We laid on the beach towel had some beers and talked about life and and past relationships. She was a little rough around the edges cause she had an abusive relationship but was very flirty and promiscious even in our first facetime chat she was wearing a bra and letting stuff slip out. After we finish at the beach (smith point LI) and get in the car there were some teenagers drinking and smoking on bikes and ricer hondas so she tells me to move my car to the other end of the lot. I pull infront of this big pond by the edge and no one else is around its a huge lot and then she starts kissing me and we hook up no sex but everything except that. Then we grab dinner at TGI fridays (nothing else was open) talk some more and drop her off home.

Fast forward to the next date the following weekend she came to my house we did a pool day, then went out to eat, lots of fun in my apartment if you catch my drift but she was showing signs of extreme clinginess and getting weird. After she left i texted her and I told her I didnt want a relationship but she insisted that we be in one, so I told her I was no longer interested and as soon as i sent that text right then and there she told me she was driving to my house all the way from LI to talk to me at 1:30 in the morning (I live in CT). I didnt want to make her upset and have her drive home late upset so I calmed her down and we talked, got intimate and then slept and she drove home the following morning. After she left I said its over please dont text me anymore thank you for everything. She said "we are not breaking up I dont accept that and we are still together", I blocked her number then she started texting me from a fake generated number using that app and saying stuff like "I love and i wont allow you to break up with me cause I did nothing wrong", I finally responded please just leave me alone i dont think we are compatible and blocked her again, she generates another number and starts getting angry and calling me a spoiled selfish person and I think im all that and "shes not the one" "shes a prize" and all this stuff and I finally said please just leave me alone your harassing me, blocked her AGAIN and she generated another fake number and started saying things like "your not thinking clearly when I get back from vacation im going to come over and F you good and we will be good again", I respond with "this is starting to get creepy" and she said "im about to get creepy on that d***", blocked her again she generates another fake number and I tell her I will send her clothes to her in the mail and she needs to stop harassing me or I will get the police involved. Then she says ok fine I just want my clothes back, I then tell her I dont want her coming to my apartment so I will fedex them to her which i did and I never heard from her since....this was the second girl i've ever met off of that ap

[Alfisti]

I dunno how you don't see this shit coming. "first face time chat was wearing a bra and letting things show" = fucking crazy. Walk.

Men put up with way, way too much crazy that encourages women to continue being fucking crazy.

[chinniciF32]

Originally Posted by Alfisti

I dunno how you don't see this shit coming. "first face time chat was wearing a bra and letting things show" = fucking crazy. Walk.

Men put up with way, way too much crazy that encourages women to continue being fucking crazy.

I mean if im being honest her IG page in it of itself was huge redflag she had like 123k followers and followed like 500 ppl and all her pics were in bathing suits and she had some lingerie pics on there also. I just have never had someone harass me like that after only literally 1 week of dating and talking. She seemed like she just wanted to fool around and keep it light man was I wrong

[Tambohamilton]

Originally Posted by chinniciF32

Wild!

[///d]

Originally Posted by chinniciF32

She was a little rough around the edges cause she had an abusive relationship but was very flirty and promiscious even in our first facetime chat she was wearing a bra and letting stuff slip out.

Originally Posted by chinniciF32

I mean if im being honest her IG page in it of itself was huge redflag she had like 123k followers and followed like 500 ppl and all her pics were in bathing suits and she had some lingerie pics on there also.

brah....

[///d]

Originally Posted by Alfisti

I dunno how you don't see this shit coming. "first face time chat was wearing a bra and letting things show" = fucking crazy. Walk.

Men put up with way, way too much crazy that encourages women to continue being fucking crazy.

Yeah, it's great when you get those easy hookups, but that also means that gal is most likely broken and thinks the only way to gain attention from someone is through sexual means. If a gal is honestly just looking for fun she will usually be upfront about it, but if she is making it appear she wants a relationship and is being sexual from the start she is probably unstable.

Years ago I was on bumble and had a gal match with me. First hour or so of messaging back and forth seemed ok, little sketch when she stated she wanted a real relationship with no bullshit, but didn't want to spend forever "getting to know someone" only to be turned down. I mean I get it, but..... Not too much longer and she was asking if I wanted to see her favorite photo of herself, and it was a photo of her lady flower, followed by topless photos. Immediately threw red flags so I moved on. Eventually found out she went on some dates with a dude I knew from the Army, and he confirmed she was crazy. She thought sex was the only way to get and keep someones attention, zero meaningful conversation, zero connection, just wanted to find a guy to get married to and not be lonely.

[chinniciF32]

Originally Posted by ///d

Yeah, it's great when you get those easy hookups, but that also means that gal is most likely broken and thinks the only way to gain attention from someone is through sexual means. If a gal is honestly just looking for fun she will usually be upfront about it, but if she is making it appear she wants a relationship and is being sexual from the start she is probably unstable.

Years ago I was on bumble and had a gal match with me. First hour or so of messaging back and forth seemed ok, little sketch when she stated she wanted a real relationship with no bullshit, but didn't want to spend forever "getting to know someone" only to be turned down. I mean I get it, but..... Not too much longer and she was asking if I wanted to see her favorite photo of herself, and it was a photo of her lady flower, followed by topless photos. Immediately threw red flags so I moved on. Eventually found out she went on some dates with a dude I knew from the Army, and he confirmed she was crazy. She thought sex was the only way to get and keep someones attention, zero meaningful conversation, zero connection, just wanted to find a guy to get married to and not be lonely.

She was definetley broken man and i've never experienced something like that before atleast crazy back end of that story. I felt bad honestly but I told her I wasnt looking for anything serious right off the bat and I take my time, but when we parked at the beach and did our thing it was hard to say no but bro fake numbers and fake IG accounts and voicemails on my phone it was starting to get out of hand....

Anyways now i've been dating/talking to this sweet and sexy thai girl for the past 3 weeks and so far so good

wow yea it sounds like it could have been a similar experience, it is sad that people need to use sex to get a relationship. I remember someone on this thread said something along the lines of "women use sex to get love and men use love to get sex" and that really resonated with me

[Chihuahua]

Originally Posted by Alfisti

Men put up with way, way too much crazy that encourages women to continue being fucking crazy.

This, times a number so large it doesn't yet exist.

Originally Posted by chinniciF32

it is sad that people need to use sex to get a relationship.

Love bombing. Look it up. You dodged a huge bullet.

[chinniciF32]

Originally Posted by Chihuahua

Love bombing. Look it up. You dodged a huge bullet.

I didnt realize there was an actual term for that behavoir, yes she text book love bombed me. Learn something new everyday.

Well its the weekend, anyone else have any upcoming dates?

[MoeTE87]

Hopefully I will feel better by the weekend so I can take my wife out on a date before all of our Christmas parties / family things start next weekend! Best time of the year!!


Also, I sure hope you used a rain coat chinniciF32! Would hate for that lady to come back and do some Maury Povich shit.

[///d]

Originally Posted by MoeTE87

Also, I sure hope you used a rain coat chinniciF32! Would hate for that lady to come back and do some Maury Povich shit.

Man I miss that show. We used to have Mandatory Maury during lunch break

[chinniciF32]

Originally Posted by MoeTE87

Hopefully I will feel better by the weekend so I can take my wife out on a date before all of our Christmas parties / family things start next weekend! Best time of the year!!


Also, I sure hope you used a rain coat chinniciF32! Would hate for that lady to come back and do some Maury Povich shit.

feel better man and take her out, speaking of which I have my christmas party tonight NO DATE (girlfriend or situationship) this year I decided to bring my grandma lol.

unfortunately I didn't wear one but its been 5 months and havent heard from hear so all is well i suppose

[UncleWede]

Originally Posted by chinniciF32

feel better man and take her out, speaking of which I have my christmas party tonight NO DATE (girlfriend or situationship) this year I decided to bring my grandma lol.

unfortunately I didn't wear one but its been 5 months and havent heard from hear so all is well i suppose

Wait, 5 months ago you boinked your gma, and she hasn't talked to you since then???

[Car-Addicted]

Originally Posted by Alfisti

Men put up with way, way too much crazy that encourages women to continue being fucking crazy.

While women that can't hide their crazy in public are difficult, the sex is fantastic.
"No doubt exists that all women are crazy; it's only a question of degree."
W. C. Fields

[///d]

Originally Posted by chinniciF32

feel better man and take her out, speaking of which I have my christmas party tonight NO DATE (girlfriend or situationship) this year I decided to bring my grandma lol.

unfortunately I didn't wear one but its been 5 months and havent heard from hear so all is well i suppose

Originally Posted by UncleWede

Wait, 5 months ago you boinked your gma, and she hasn't talked to you since then???

Yep... this was one of those times you really needed to proof read how you replied before submitting

[chinniciF32]

Originally Posted by ///d

Yep... this was one of those times you really needed to proof read how you replied before submitting

lmao fair enough but you guys know what I meant, there is no pregnancy scare from the crazy one from the summer.

[Mason Hatcher]

Originally Posted by chinniciF32

Thread revive

This was a good thread, anyone have any good/bad/scary date stories?

Summer 2023 - Started chatting with this girl on Chispa, missed all the red flags and acting foolishly

Fixed it.

Never, ever, let them know where you live until you have established they are stable. And you should stop dating until you either mature or get some coaching.

[chinniciF32]

Originally Posted by Car-Addicted

While women that can't hide their crazy in public are difficult, the sex is fantastic.
"No doubt exists that all women are crazy; it's only a question of degree."
W. C. Fields

for what its worth i totally agree it was fantastic but it came with a price. Lesson learned i suppose

[Samurai of 2day]

There's a lot to read here, so I'm WAY out of touch with the dating scene.

I can say that I know it's over for me, however lol. And I don't have the patience or will to delve into dating apps. I did try once or twice, however.

Even tho I check many of the common boxes mentioned as important and attractive to women within my age range (physically fit, stabe career, don't need a surrogate mom, chivalrous, etc.) I believe either all the good women are already taken by guys who appreciated what the bring to the table, the single women in my age range are not sure what they even want, so don't appreciated what they actually have, and then the hot single ladies are simply conditioned to be so entitled, they too will always be single since nothing will be good enough, lol.

I don't normally vist this thread as i have nothing to contribute, so forgive me as I've had a long layover while traveling for work, so I'm just bored at the bar (bar tender treating me good) waiting to get back to my place once my flight starts boarding.