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12-10-2021, 09:49 AM | #12256 |
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Thanks for the responses/feedback. I appreciate it. It seems like she has been conflicted about going even prior to our discussion. She has made a few comments that have insinuated either she's ambivalent about going and/or she feels somewhat obligated to go because of the expected financial contribution (…she's covering half of the room). Ah well! I suppose it's water under the bridge at this point. What will be, will be.
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12-10-2021, 09:52 AM | #12257 |
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The number of sealed 55 gallon drums is going to require additional permitting soon.
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A girl once invited me to her place which was a complete mess, empty pizza boxes, clothes and other sh*t everywhere, I was in shock, I've never seen anything like that in person. And she actually got offended because I did not take my shoes off when I entered the apartment. Kind of a red flag I would say.
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12-10-2021, 10:00 AM | #12260 |
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YES!!! I can add patchouli, cinnamon and nutmeg and maybe some pine cones for a nice wintery solstice holiday scent, that my entire neighborhood can enjoy!! Genius! Public service announcement: Do not roast hot dogs or marshmallows at Jody's bonfire's.
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12-10-2021, 10:04 AM | #12261 |
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12-10-2021, 10:17 AM | #12262 |
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12-10-2021, 10:24 AM | #12263 |
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12-10-2021, 10:27 AM | #12264 | |
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You have every right to communicate, and you should, as early as possible. As soon as you let something fester, I've found that during the time I let it fester, it becomes a much bigger deal to me than it would be if I addressed it right off the bat. I suspect this is because I have (and we all have) a little internal attorney present at all times, defending us and our actions, explaining to our inner self why we were right / justified, and why the other person wasn't. This attorney really goes to work if you give him the time to do so - he's fricking tireless in his efforts and when you let something fester, you give this guy the time to blow things out of proportion. Ultimately, you aren't wrong about your desire to spend time together on significant occasions, nor are you wrong that if the shoe was on the other foot, she might be looking at you with similar resentment. That said, you've also known about this for a while and didn't say anything until it was too late. Not only that, when asked, you told her you didn't mind. This then is a consequence of your actions, so take it. You lied, and you didn't act in time. That's it, bluntly, in a nut shell. It would not be fair for you to now expect her to cancel for you having misled her. Think about how you might feel if she did to you, what you did to her, and you had already committed to going on a trip with some guys, and last minute she says "why didn't you cancel"? Even though you had been told she didn't mind you going, and never said anything about it the whole way along. Communication, communication, communication. So fricking important. And knowing that, I still fail to do so adequately and quickly enough numerous times in my marriage. Sounds like otherwise you have a very healthy relationship and you tend to communicate quickly with each other. |
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12-10-2021, 11:25 AM | #12267 |
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Tell her to go!! Give her spending money. Round up your homies and kill it for the time she is away. When my girl ever talks about trips, I make her go!!!! Last time she went on a girls trip, pre Covid I rounded some of my friends up and went to the Waste Management golf tournament. That shit was epic!! If anyone is reading this and is debating this trip, it's a must. Scottsdale is awesome at night!! We did VIP on the 16th hole, drank and ate all day. Golfed a few rounds. Girls were flashing tits and beer bonging at the 16 th hole. Is was crazy fun!! Do something fun while she is away. If she gives you any shit about that, you got the wrong one my friend.
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I have a first date tonight, first since June 2020. Slightly nervous because it's been a while but it should be easy enough. Her bio reads "sushi and beer are the way to my heart and my pants".
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12-10-2021, 06:16 PM | #12271 |
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Anyone else that’s not single envious of dating but then the minute they remember back to dating they think fuck that I’m glad I never have to worry about “trying” to get some on the weekend bc I already know I am not going to get some bc I’m married?
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I can't comment on the statement about marriage, but I can tell you this….. …now that I'm out of the dating game, I have no desire whatsoever to venture back into the fray. The mere thought of being single and having to mingle again stresses me out (…not really, but you get the gist). I may not be having as much sex in my relationship as I did when I was constantly on the hunt, but I prefer stability and consistency over volatility. Quote:
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