Dating - Good/Bad Experiences

[Never_Enough]

Originally Posted by upstatedoc

but there is more riding on it than just getting shot down

The kids will be fine. I guarantee they don't even care about whatever nonsense you 2 are doing.

OVER THINKING...

[Seeyal]

Originally Posted by OnerDriver

Picture not displaying should've kept it

Weather is so bad this past week... I had mine in the garage and am driving my truck, but the weather will be perfect tomorrow

[upstatedoc]

Originally Posted by Never_Enough

Maybe doc is insecure b/c small wang?

you're not helping

[Never_Enough]

Originally Posted by upstatedoc

you're not helping

Well guys, we finally got to the root of it.

[King Rudi]

Originally Posted by upstatedoc

you're not helping

Women enjoy small wang too. Look at it this way, if you're huge most complain that it hurts, unless they are a straight up whore, and they spend the time wiggling away from what you're giving or just trying to relax. If it's average to small, they work harder for the off. I've dug deep in this conversation with many ladies. Most will say large is nice to look at but most with largeness have no idea what to do with it. The average to smaller guys also try harder. Most of the women I have talked to on this subject have said the best sex they ever had was with a guy who was small.

[Turkish Pickle]

Originally Posted by CTinline-six

Especially with a 6MT. Something about a N/A inline 6 with the 6MT. My friend has an e46 330i ZHP with 6MT and that car is such a blast to drive in the NY mountain roads.

that's the goal, the car has no sport pack which sucks major dick because shitty seats and an even shittier steering wheel, but is a stick shift AND is rwd and doesn't have the cold weather pack so it probably isn't a midwest car either, which is super dank because salt induced rust is a real thing. I'm actually scared to look underneath my lincoln

also - on other news, texted jade to tell her im prob going to be in town on saturday, she told me to "definitely visit" and that she was "excited" when i said i'd text her when im there

[Turkish Pickle]

Originally Posted by OnerDriver

Probably not the same excited you're thinking of. Don't overthink this, she's not dripping over the thought of you...

upstatedoc care to answer our questions on the stitches?

i mean yeah, have you seen my face?

[upstatedoc]

Originally Posted by OnerDriver

So if she's taking out the stitches, who's driving her?

i didnt ask her, i think her gf drove her back from procedure last week. thats the other thing, i dont know if she has any other romantic interests. i don't and i don't date multiple women at the same time. wont do it. and to be honest if she is dating other guys i will stop my pursuit

[Joekerr]

Originally Posted by upstatedoc

i didnt ask her, i think her gf drove her back from procedure last week. thats the other thing, i dont know if she has any other romantic interests. i don't and i don't date multiple women at the same time. wont do it. and to be honest if she is dating other guys i will stop my pursuit

I'm not precisely certain that "pursuit" is the proper word to describe what you are doing.

Pick up the phone, text her and ask if you can bring dinner over to keep her off her feet. And if you can help with driving her back if hasn't happened already.

Face palm.

[King Rudi]

Originally Posted by Joekerr

I'm not precisely certain that "pursuit" is the proper word to describe what you are doing.

Pick up the phone, text her and ask if you can bring dinner over to keep her off her feet. And if you can help with driving her back if hasn't happened already.

Face palm.

This. I can't help but feel like the guy hiding in the bushes telling the suitor what to shout to the window of the lady he is trying to woo. Except in this case you have 10 of us hiding in the bushes.

I feel like she might be better suited dating one of us.

On a serious note. This is EXACTLY, what you need to do. In order to formulate a game plan, you have to know what you are working with. As Mr. King stated above, call or text her NOW and offer dinner. Once you are to where you can talk to her, find out if she is romantically involved with anyone, then decide what your next move is.

[RS DAVE]

Originally Posted by Not_Judy

Women enjoy small wang too. Look at it this way, if you're huge most complain that it hurts, unless they are a straight up whore, and they spend the time wiggling away from what you're giving or just trying to relax. If it's average to small, they work harder for the off. I've dug deep in this conversation with many ladies. Most will say large is nice to look at but most with largeness have no idea what to do with it. The average to smaller guys also try harder. Most of the women I have talked to on this subject have said the best sex they ever had was with a guy who was small.

So you're advocating small dicks??

[King Rudi]

Originally Posted by RS DAVE

So you're advocating small dicks??

Negative. Sharing information. It's what I do. I could care less what size any of you are. I know what I'm packing.

[Never_Enough]

Originally Posted by OnerDriver

Probably not the same excited you're thinking of. Don't overthink this, she's not dripping over the thought of you...

upstatedoc care to answer our questions on the stitches?

How do ya know? They don't say they're excited to see you if they just feel meh about it. She could have easily said something like "Cool, let's chill if we have time."

[Never_Enough]

Originally Posted by OnerDriver

I found that for us to do a proper docking you need to care about those things Judy.

Human cockipede

[Never_Enough]

Originally Posted by Not_Judy

This. I can't help but feel like the guy hiding in the bushes telling the suitor what to shout to the window of the lady he is trying to woo. Except in this case you have 10 of us hiding in the bushes.

I feel like she might be better suited dating one of us.

On a serious note. This is EXACTLY, what you need to do. In order to formulate a game plan, you have to know what you are working with. As Mr. King stated above, call or text her NOW and offer dinner. Once you are to where you can talk to her, find out if she is romantically involved with anyone, then decide what your next move is.

I'll tell you who's bush does not have anyone in it...Danielle's. doc FTL

[UncleWede]

upstatedoc *I* commend you for taking the blues for the kids, and thinking with more than your little wang in this.

[King Rudi]

Originally Posted by OnerDriver

I found that for us to do a proper docking you need to care about those things Judy.

Holy shit! There will be absolutely no docking done over here sir....none.

[Matt@EuroJerks]

Originally Posted by kscarrol

She probably hasn't made it back to her dorm yet after a long halloween night...

SHAKKKKERS!!!!!!

[upstatedoc]

Originally Posted by Joekerr

I'm not precisely certain that "pursuit" is the proper word to describe what you are doing.

Pick up the phone, text her and ask if you can bring dinner over to keep her off her feet. And if you can help with driving her back if hasn't happened already.

Face palm.

did that already and she said thank you very much

[CTinline-six]

Originally Posted by upstatedoc

i dont know if she has any other romantic interests.

You can't have that mindset.

Don't care about any other potential interests she may have. There will always be a "what if" that could stop you from doing something. She obviously likes you. Most women would have kept the conversation very formal long before this if she thought otherwise, and wouldn't want to hang out with you.

Even if she has other guys trying to approach her, maybe she is ignoring them and hoping something happens with you?

With my first GF I thought the same way. She was way out of my league in my mind, and had lots of guys talking to her. It was high school, and most of them were football players who were much more built than I was. We hung out one night at a game and I walked her to her car. We chatted for what seemed like forever and finally I just went for it and made out with her. If I just hugged her and left wondering what could've been, we would have never dated.

The next time you see her, walk right up to her and kiss her without saying a word. I'm 99% sure you will be glad you did.

[Turkish Pickle]

Originally Posted by CTinline-six

You can't have that mindset.

Don't care about any other potential interests she may have. There will always be a "what if" that could stop you from doing something. She obviously likes you. Most women would have kept the conversation very formal long before this if she thought otherwise, and wouldn't want to hang out with you.

Even if she has other guys trying to approach her, maybe she is ignoring them and hoping something happens with you?

With my first GF I thought the same way. She was way out of my league in my mind, and had lots of guys talking to her. It was high school, and most of them were football players who were much more built than I was. We hung out one night at a game and I walked her to her car. We chatted for what seemed like forever and finally I just went for it and made out with her. If I just hugged her and left wondering what could've been, we would have never dated.

The next time you see her, walk right up to her and kiss her without saying a word. I'm 99% sure you will be glad you did.

100% agree with my man inline 6; you are you and she is she, controlling her until you two agree on being exclusive you can't really expect that from someone else

also, regardless: you did say she told you she's avail unless her ex is in town, i highly doubt they talk about normal friendly stuff with him. given she still sees her ex (that she divorced from) you aren't the only one in the equation anyway... this shouldn't be a reason for you to "give up" though, at least wouldn't be for me since i feel like until both of you agree that you are exclusive you should be going out yourself but maybe that's the 20 year old me talking.

you clearly want something to happen, otherwise i dont think any normal person would post about this so much/often. just make it happen!

[Matt@EuroJerks]

Originally Posted by OnerDriver

I found that for us to do a proper docking you need to care about those things Judy.

Weird flex, but ok...