Dating - Good/Bad Experiences

[Cyn-BMW]

Originally Posted by Sedan_Clan

In Sara's case he'd need to say that he just flew in for dinner and would be flying back home since he has a private landing strip on 20 acres of property.

20 acres? That’s all?

[JP10]

Originally Posted by Sedan_Clan

Yeah, I'm confounded. I don't know how that makes him more gentlemanly.

Yeah I'd more so describe him as a pansy but what do I know

[Sedan_Clan]

Originally Posted by JP10

Yeah I'd more so describe him as a pansy but what do I know

You're thinking exactly what the rest of us are thinking. Furthermore, it seems like the guy already knew her or was familiar with her based on the text screenshot, so he wasn't exactly a nobody.

[Sedan_Clan]

Originally Posted by Sara

I mean that I don't want to engage in conversation with someone who may be interested in me without being ready to do so. In this instance, it's ungodly hot outside, I'm sweating, the sun in beaming down on us, I'm in uncomfortable shoes, I don't feel pretty, quick walk three blocks to the grocery store to pick some items with a colleague in tow, I would feel not right striking up a conversation with a hot guy. It would catch me off guard to have a conversation with him in that moment.

So, I'm very appreciate that he saw me, and instead of walking over to me, he decided to just send me a DM. Very sweet of him. I would have felt frazzled should he have approached me and that being our first encounter. I don't have full make up on, it's just not how I want a first encounter to go.

I always strive to look my best and be my best when I first meet someone. When I'm not wearing lipstick, I get self conscious. It's the little things like that. I just want first encounter to be perfect, if I can mange that.

I'm just……. wow!

[cmyx6go]

Originally Posted by Sara

I mean that I don't want to engage in conversation with someone who may be interested in me without being ready to do so. In this instance, it's ungodly hot outside, I'm sweating, the sun in beaming down on us, I'm in uncomfortable shoes, I don't feel pretty, quick walk three blocks to the grocery store to pick some items with a colleague in tow, I would feel not right striking up a conversation with a hot guy. It would catch me off guard to have a conversation with him in that moment.

So, I'm very appreciate that he saw me, and instead of walking over to me, he decided to just send me a DM. Very sweet of him. I would have felt frazzled should he have approached me and that being our first encounter. I don't have full make up on, it's just not how I want a first encounter to go.

I always strive to look my best and be my best when I first meet someone. When I'm not wearing lipstick, I get self conscious. It's the little things like that. I just want first encounter to be perfect, if I can mange that.

Please do not take this as an attack, it is not. You are not perfect, you are a human being and that is what makes you, you. If it is going to go anywhere past a first or second date, the real you counts. Relationships are based on honesty. How long can you keep a facade going? Who cares if you don't have on lipstick. What do you do if he asks a question you aren't prepared for and don't have an answer scripted? I feel like a dinosaur....

[King Rudi]

Originally Posted by Sedan_Clan

I'm just……. wow!

Same. I don't even know how to respond to this.

[Sedan_Clan]

Originally Posted by cmyx6go

Please do not take this as an attack, it is not. You are not perfect, you are a human being and that is what makes you, you. If it is going to go anywhere past a first or second date, the real you counts. Relationships are based on honesty. How long can you keep a facade going? Who cares if you don't have on lipstick. What do you do if he asks a question you aren't prepared for and don't have an answer scripted? I feel like a dinosaur....

You're not…….you're just a breed of woman that exists in a world where the superficial takes precedence over substance.

[King Rudi]

Originally Posted by Sara

What is so wrong with wanting to look nice to meet someone?? It's just how I feel. If you don't feel the same, that's great. You're allowed to feel that way and I'm allowed to feel this way.

Like I said, I'm very happy the way he handled that moment. Now, let's change the subject.

I've always been of the mindset to look your best at all times, in the event that you may bump into someone. Being comfortable in your own skin at all times is essentially the definition of "down to earth" and confident. If I were interested in someone and they blew me off in person, because they didn't look or feel a certain way; would instantly cause me to not be interested. Period.

Even if it's a weekend and I'm in old jeans and a t-shirt, I still make damn sure I look damn good in those jeans and t-shirt. Confidence exudes regardless of situational circumstances.

Originally Posted by Sedan_Clan

You're not…….you're just a breed of woman that exists in a world where the superficial takes precedence over substance.

Well said.

[M5Rick]

^^ I don't think it's superficial for most women it's just the way it is to look their best, it's always been like this going back a long time.

[King Rudi]

Originally Posted by M5Rick

^^ I don't think it's superficial for most women it's just the way it is to look their best, it's always been like this going back a long time.

Perhaps it's just the small town that I live in, but I have to disagree. MOST women (around here at least) put no effort in how they look. Some do, but most do not.

[shoei]

Originally Posted by ASBSECU E93

JFC….this endless circle of advice is pointless.

Literally a regurgitation of the exact same direction from 3 years ago….

shoei ….get your people….

Oh I was about to say - "da fuck? It's like none of us ever left" but I was wrong. It's worse, lol.

I mean, it's the same simpy circle jerk around Sara. Sara, loves to feed the simps, it's, entertaining sometimes because, well, it's very cringe lol. Like watching a slow motion train wreck I suppose.

But other times, it's too much. And some of y'all haven't figured out that half of what Sara says is just trolling. I mean, one hopes, LOL. Plus, she's been in Mississippi for a minute now. Southern cooking isn't healthy. She could be the size of the Goodyear blimp is all I'm saying.

[Chihuahua]

Originally Posted by Sara

Perfect example of a gentleman. Just saying...

I haven't met this guy yet. We'll go on a date eventually sometime, maybe next week. He saw me and walked past me about an hour ago when I was walking with a girlfriend. He did not call my name, he did not approach us. Classic gentleman. Now I have a lot more respect for him for not approaching us and catching me off guard and I'm looking forward to meeting him just bit more now.

'wit yo fine self'?!?!?!?

That is idiotic and corny AF. No Sara, this is not the mark of a classic gentleman. It's not even in the ballpark.

[shoei]

Originally Posted by King Rudi

Perhaps it's just the small town that I live in, but I have to disagree. MOST women (around here at least) put no effort in how they look. Some do, but most do not.

Before or after the pandemic? Cuz priorities got shifted during pandemic. lol

[fiveohwblow]

Originally Posted by King Rudi

Perhaps it's just the small town that I live in, but I have to disagree. MOST women (around here at least) put no effort in how they look. Some do, but most do not.

Sadly same

[King Rudi]

Originally Posted by shoei

Before or after the pandemic? Cuz priorities got shifted during pandemic. lol

Dude, I live in TN. Pre and post pandemic. The good thing about post pandemic, is that these individuals are also the one's hiding from work; so they are not in the public eye too much at the moment.

Shoei, where the hell have you been?

[nyalpine90]

Originally Posted by Sara

What is so wrong with wanting to look nice to meet someone?? It's just how I feel. If you don't feel the same, that's great. You're allowed to feel that way and I'm allowed to feel this way.

Like I said, I'm very happy the way he handled that moment. Now, let's change the subject.

you got it all wrong...

i rather see a woman with her natural look, then getting all caked up just to step out the door...smh

[shoei]

Originally Posted by King Rudi

Dude, I live in TN. Pre and post pandemic. The good thing about post pandemic, is that these individuals are also the one's hiding from work; so they are not in the public eye too much at the moment.

Shoei, where the hell have you been?

Hiding from ASBSECU E93 . We had a brief moment way back and he just won't let that moment be that beautiful moment. Wants to keep pursuing. I'm tired. I just want to be able to enjoy my gawdamn happy hour without him blowing up my bimmerpost. Lemme sit here with the girls, don't need him cockblocking. I did not put on clean underwear just to have to deal with him. No sir.

[M5Rick]

Originally Posted by King Rudi

Perhaps it's just the small town that I live in, but I have to disagree. MOST women (around here at least) put no effort in how they look. Some do, but most do not.

That figures that in a small town or village the women will look 'Emmerdalish', going into a bigger town more it would be more prevalent to see women with make up and uptown (that word again) then you can easily be distracted when driving.

[CTinline-six]

Originally Posted by Cyn-BMW

20 acres? That’s all?

Maybe he flies ultralights.

[upstatedoc]

Just got back from the grocery store…



And cmyx6go When are you picking me up in your new M?

[CTinline-six]

Originally Posted by upstatedoc

Just got back from the grocery store…



And cmyx6go When are you picking me up in your new M?

Right after the pool boy finishes washing it.

[upstatedoc]

Originally Posted by CTinline-six

Right after the pool boy finishes washing it.

Damn pool boys!