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03-20-2019, 09:18 PM | #68 |
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Not in many years. i had my heart broken when I was a teenager. I rebounded by smashing every pussy I could.
I stepped back, learned about myself, and made myself someone that a woman might want to be with for more that than a few nights. |
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03-20-2019, 11:05 PM | #70 |
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Nothing here too. Beyond livid.
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03-21-2019, 12:41 AM | #71 |
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i wasn't cheated on, but i was cheated with a few times
if you ask my girlfriend from sophomore yr of college though us "being on a break until we see each other again" doesn't mean we broke up because long distance was a retarded idea so i have cheated once me being very upfront about that didn't help my cause and i ended up losing an incredibly hot girl but given her father publicly stated voting for their party in the elections was a guaranteed ticket to heaven i can't say i feel bad about it |
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03-21-2019, 08:03 AM | #73 | |
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To answer your question, no two relationships (or marriages) are the same. What works for one, may not work for another. To put all relationships or marriages into the same category is asinine as everyone is different, as are relationships. If a marriage was bonded with both parties sharing the same concept of "forsake all others" then no, swinging would not be ok. In the event that two people are married and they are honest enough with each other and themselves that they are human and that they find other people attractive yet do not act upon it out of the respect of the sanctity of their marriage, then swinging is not ok. If two people who are in a relationship/marriage are open to swinging, communicate openly and do not go against the standards set forth in their relationship then I don't see why there would be a problem. Swinging should only be acceptable in a relationship that acceptable by both parties involved. If you feel that "foresaking all others" in order to love someone is how you should live your life, then I feel you should have no opinion in the sanctity of others relationships in the event that they do not choose to live by your standard. |
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03-21-2019, 08:07 AM | #74 | |
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You dodged something there all right. Probably a lot of things. Good choice. |
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03-21-2019, 09:05 AM | #75 |
I can haz cheezburger?
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03-21-2019, 09:13 AM | #76 |
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If the relationship is over then it needs to be understood by both individuals. Does he simply not know as in you haven't communicated with him that it is over or is he like Johnny from the Karate Kid?
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03-21-2019, 10:24 AM | #79 |
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My first marriage ended after only two years because of infidelities. Of course, I was the dumbass to push the envelope first but when she "returned the favor" and I found out... I couldnt take it and divorced her almost immediately. Always promised her she would only get one chance and she finally called my bluff after a total relationship length of 10 years (dating/marriage).
To be clear... I was not blatantly cheating on my wife. Little slip ups or past issues (from before marriage) continue to build up and really never go away. To be honest, we were probably due for a change anyway but that didnt make selling the house, moving out of state and all of the stress and pain that goes along with such an event any easier. Its a slippery slope gentlemen. We all know it! Im 31, FWIW. ***I promise to be better next time. |
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03-21-2019, 10:25 AM | #81 |
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03-21-2019, 10:39 AM | #82 | |
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03-21-2019, 10:46 AM | #83 |
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I knew that was coming...
So before we were married, I was playing high level sports and was always around other women and in the public view, etc. Thats actually how we met and she understood that it came with the territory. During this time - yes, I was banging other broads. Once we got married... I did not bang any other broads. This mentality in her mind from prior continued to manifest over time and coupled with NEW "slip ups" became a recipe for her to cheat on me. Of course now that we are a couple years divorced and somewhat moved on... she still wants to talk occasionally and says things like "Im not sure Ill ever be able to love anyone again." Idk man. Relationships can become a real twisted web... Im glad I got the first one behind me and harmed no children in the process. I was genuinely trying hard during those two years but ultimately was too immature (along with my wife) to keep shit together. Slip ups for me included: Strip clubs with the boys Drinking and drugging with the boys Dating apps Adding random women to social media Etc. |
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never cheated before, of course the temptation is always there.
i been cheated on before, it definitely causes trust issues. but some weird reason wearing wedding band attracts attention lol |
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Gentlemen take notes: If a man at a bar sans-woman accompaniment is rocking a wedding band, women instantly think he is married. This will automatically remove the women that want a relationship yet will invite the women that only want to get laid. In a woman's eyes if they want sex and don't want a clinger the next day, they will look for men with wedding bands as married men (typically) don't want to chase after the one night stand they stumbled across at the bar. Last edited by King Rudi; 03-21-2019 at 12:26 PM.. |
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I'm still a bit pissed about that and feel a bit guilty, but I didn't know. I hope that guy got rid of her and found someone better. The sniz wasn't that great. |
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