Dating - Good/Bad Experiences

[King Rudi]

Originally Posted by Sara

Hair salon time. Date night. Though we’re having severe weather today. We’ll see.

Ok yeah, that's a cool jacket. Situation justified.

[Fly320s]

Originally Posted by Sara

Hair salon time. Date night. Though we’re having severe weather today. We’ll see.

Amazing.

[Sara]

Originally Posted by King Rudi

Ok yeah, that's a cool jacket. Situation justified.

New jacket arrived. Looks terrible. Sent it back this morning for a refund. Even happier now I have my original jacket back. Worth all the effort I put in.

Ready for my next mission.

[Buug959]

Originally Posted by Sara

New jacket arrived. Looks terrible. Sent it back this morning for a refund. Even happier now I have my original jacket back. Worth all the effort I put in.

Ready for my next mission.

Speaking of missions, How did date night go Saturday? Did the weather interfere?

[Sara]

Originally Posted by LemansE90335xi

Speaking of missions, How did date night go Saturday? Did the weather interfere?

Didn't happen. Was on his way to me when the hospital called him in for an emergency. I'm understanding and told him not to feel bad, it's not like he doesn't come to New Orleans nearly every weekend. So we're rescheduling it.

Edit: I'm kinda glad it didn't happen because the sexy ass dress I ordered two weeks ago arrives today. Now just need to hurry up and get my lips done without him noticing and I'll be hot shit for our next date.

[Buug959]

Originally Posted by Sara

Didn't happen. Was on his way to me when the hospital called him in for an emergency. I'm understanding and told him not to feel bad, it's not like he doesn't come to New Orleans nearly every weekend. So we're rescheduling it.

That's too bad he couldn't make it but like you say, not the end of the world. Better luck next time.

PS The jacket suites you and was worth the drama IMO. Glad you managed to get it back.

[King Rudi]

I'm in trouble. I made the social media sin. I asked the girlfriend who a guy was who is always "hearting" her pictures. I'm an idiot.

It's not that I thought anything is going on. Fully trust her 100%. Not to mention this guy isn't someone that she would be interested in.....I hope. I just noticed that every time she posts a picture, which isn't often at all; he is one of the first people to "like" it. It's almost as if he is sitting and waiting for her to post. I was just curious who the guy was, ie. friend of the family, etc.

I have now made myself look like the controlling untrusting boyfriend. I was only curious who he was/is. Almost 5 years with someone, you kind of expect to "know" the important people in their life. I thought he was important to some degree.

I've been given the "I'd rather you ask than wonder" reply; but I also got the "I don't talk to anyone on social media because I'm in a relationship" response....followed by "so there is that." Dammit. Rudi > < Rudi

[Tambohamilton]

No offense, but she must be really touchy if that actually bothers her! I guess a lot of folk are, come to think of it...

[cmyx6go]

Originally Posted by King Rudi

I'm in trouble. I made the social media sin. I asked the girlfriend who a guy was who is always "hearting" her pictures. I'm an idiot.

It's not that I thought anything is going on. Fully trust her 100%. Not to mention this guy isn't someone that she would be interested in.....I hope. I just noticed that every time she posts a picture, which isn't often at all; he is one of the first people to "like" it. It's almost as if he is sitting and waiting for her to post. I was just curious who the guy was, ie. friend of the family, etc.

I have now made myself look like the controlling untrusting boyfriend. I was only curious who he was/is. Almost 5 years with someone, you kind of expect to "know" the important people in their life. I thought he was important to some degree.

I've been given the "I'd rather you ask than wonder" reply; but I also got the "I don't talk to anyone on social media because I'm in a relationship" response....followed by "so there is that." Dammit. Rudi > < Rudi

Sorry, but she is over reacting again. There is a difference between being curious and being controlling and untrusting. Did you get an answer other than what you posted above?

[King Rudi]

Originally Posted by cmyx6go

Sorry, but she is over reacting again. There is a difference between being curious and being controlling and untrusting. Did you get an answer other than what you posted above?

Not really. I've asked several times if I've upset her. Her response is only "I'd rather you ask than to wonder." Still hasn't said whether or not she's mad. I'm just going to act like everything is normal.

I don't necessarily think she's over reacting. She hasn't lashed out or anything, but that really isn't her style anyway.

[M5Rick]

Originally Posted by King Rudi

Not really. I've asked several times if I've upset her. Her response is only "I'd rather you ask than to wonder." Still hasn't said whether or not she's mad. I'm just going to act like everything is normal.

I don't necessarily think she's over reacting. She hasn't lashed out or anything, but that really isn't her style anyway.

Best thing as you say to act normal. There are ppl hanging around s/m sites 24/7 getting fixation on some images that catch their eye and follow it aimlessly putting ticks and hearts on at will in the hope it will stir something up.

[Tambohamilton]

It was a normal question which deserved nothing more than a normal answer....acting as if nothing has happened is only reasonable.

[Turkish Pickle]

Originally Posted by cmyx6go

Sorry, but she is over reacting again. There is a difference between being curious and being controlling and untrusting. Did you get an answer other than what you posted above?

Originally Posted by King Rudi

Not really. I've asked several times if I've upset her. Her response is only "I'd rather you ask than to wonder." Still hasn't said whether or not she's mad. I'm just going to act like everything is normal.

I don't necessarily think she's over reacting. She hasn't lashed out or anything, but that really isn't her style anyway.

Not even a "he's a xyz" or anything, just "don't worry about it?"

[Buug959]

Originally Posted by Turkish Pickle

Not even a "he's a xyz" or anything, just "don't worry about it?"

That's pretty close to telling a woman to calm down.

[Sedan_Clan]

I need to find a woman who isn't native to California. I've always had better luck that way.

[Sedan_Clan]

Originally Posted by Sara

Hair salon time. Date night. Though we’re having severe weather today. We’ll see.

T'was a cute outfit Sara. I'm sure he'll love the dress more though.

[Sara]

Do guys really only hang out with women FOR WHAT THEY LOOK LIKE?!

[MKSixer]

Originally Posted by Sara

Do guys really only hang out with women FOR WHAT THEY LOOK LIKE?!

I don't mean to be a knuckle dragger but it's a start.

[Sara]

Originally Posted by MKSixer

I don't mean to be a knuckle dragger but it's a start.

I’m still salty about that voice memo I forwarded to you. Like does he really think that’s what I want to hear???

Short story: I invited a guy friend over to hang out in the hot tub with me and my girlfriend. He’s met her before. He wasn’t feeling 100% so instead of saying “hey Sara, I don’t feel my best I’ll come over another time when I’m not under the weather” he says “... the only reason I’m torn is because of what you look like...”

What an insult.


Hope everyone else has a better night.

[MKSixer]

Originally Posted by Sara

I’m still salty about that voice memo I forwarded to you. Like does he really think that’s what I want to hear???

Short story: I invited a guy friend over to hang out in the hot tub with me and my girlfriend. He’s met her before. He wasn’t feeling 100% so instead of saying “hey Sara, I don’t feel my best I’ll come over another time when I’m not under the weather” he says “... the only reason I’m torn is because of what you look like...”

What an insult.


Hope everyone else has a better night.

He's a bum. A complete bum. You don't need to waste another minute on that idiot.

[Sara]

Originally Posted by MKSixer

He's a bum. A complete bum. You don't need to waste another minute on that idiot.

I mean, fuck. Like is New Orleans seriously just full of douche bags??

My spirit animal must be a bull because I’m only attracted to red flags. Even in just my regular guy friends.

[MKSixer]

Originally Posted by Sara

I mean, fuck. Like is New Orleans seriously just full of douche bags??

My spirit animal must be a bull because I’m only attracted to red flags. Even in just my regular guy friends.

Nah...you are just on a bad run. We all go through them.