Dating - Good/Bad Experiences

[upstatedoc]

Originally Posted by Turkish Pickle

Good news:

Girlfriend is moving in on May!

We're going to split rent, which saves me about $800/mo. And after I got turned down from buying property (did you know you can't take a mortgage if you don't have a green card/citizenship?).... I'm getting ready to buy a car

Extremely happy how this has unfolded, I get to have my gf with me, and I can afford to own a nicer, faster car

Moving was ass, I realized I had way too much crap. Started picking out stuff as I was unpacking and I've started getting rid of it. For a college student in the last 4-5 years I've accumulated a dumb amount of stuff. Then you have my girlfriend who's just going to pack her Jetta and drive

So the girlfriend moving in is financially advantageous for you? Pickle

[M5Rick]

Originally Posted by Sara

Fuck this guy. Seriously, why is he refusing to give my jacket back. Such a fucking asshole. If he wants to hold onto it that bad, fuck him. What a weirdo.

Thanks for showing me the red flags that were blurry to me guys (and girls). I dodged a bullet with this one for sure. Can you imagine if I went out with him longer how controlling he would have turned into?? I’m really glad that waiter incident happened now.

It's good you showed him the dump door Sara and I hope you get your jacket back somehow.

[Sara]

Originally Posted by King Rudi

Do you ever feel like maybe I'm just rustling your feathers? Just curious.

Why would he offer that he has your jacket, then act as if he wants to return it to you and then be a jerk after? That is a dick move.

I feel you on the clothing bit though. I once cut a man for scuffing my sneakers. Not really. I would though. The ex-wife managed to steal a vintage Lacoste cardigan from me when she left for the last time. Dirty bitch. Eight years together.....you mention her name and I think of adultery and my vintage cardigan that went with everything.

I'm having a bad ten minutes of my day! lol It's not about the damn jacket anymore, it's about the principle.

[Sara]

Originally Posted by cmyx6go

I asked before, but got no answer. So I’ll ask again. How did you let him know you didn’t want to see him again? Either way the guy is a dick. Just curious if his behavior is a reaction to an action.

I just told you, I texted him and told him my life is super busy, etc.

[cmyx6go]

Originally Posted by Sara

I didn't flat out say that he was being a dick to the wait staff on the first date and I didn't appreciate that, though I guess I should have, or the fact that he was smothering me to death with a hundred text messages. I tried to be very nice and texted him that I was super busy with life and don't have time to hang out with him. I thought that was a nice, easy way to let someone down. Clearly I was mistaken. I don't think it justifies him not allowing me to have my belongings back.

I’m not saying it does. Like I said, it was a dick move regardless. I was just wondering if you ghosted him or something.

[rebekahb]

Originally Posted by Sara

It's not about the damn jacket anymore, it's about the principle.

That would drive me bat shit crazy. I'm a huge principal person. At this point, the guy is just being a dick to drag you along & have some form of contact even if it's negative. You may want to just say adios to the jacket and cut all ties. Sometimes, the hill isn't worth dying on

[Sara]

Originally Posted by rebekahb

That would drive me bat shit crazy. I'm a huge principal person. At this point, the guy is just being a dick to drag you along & have some form of contact even if it's negative. You may want to just say adios to the jacket and cut all ties. Sometimes, the hill isn't worth dying on

I could pull a really big dick move and ask my cop friend to go over there and get it back for me. He's got his daughter too, wouldn't that be a scene....I wouldn't do that to the kid though, because I have a heart. Ugh, but I could if I reeeally wanted to be a bitch.

[Sara]

Originally Posted by Tambohamilton

I thought he'd offered to leave it somewhere for you to collect? What's he saying now?

He did! He offered to put it in the mailbox I tried to make it super easy by sending a prepaid label, but then I told him I would be just happy to pick it up this evening and that I'd be coming by.

[upstatedoc]

Will you be packing heat?

[Sara]

Originally Posted by upstatedoc

Will you be packing heat?

Haha, no. That’s not something I play around with. That’s only for self defense

[Sara]

Alright it’s settled. Cop friends more than willing to swing by tomorrow to collect it (when douchebag doesn’t have his kid). I tried to be nice. #cutebutpsycho

Back on topic now. Waiting on the pics MKSixer!!!

[Esteban]

Originally Posted by M5Rick

Washing done and hung,otherwise I'd be toast Steve.

Yep, I get laundry detail too sometimes. Comes with the territory. lol

[M5Rick]

Originally Posted by Esteban

Yep, I get laundry detail too sometimes. Comes with the territory. lol

At least it's an easy chore.

[CTinline-six]

Originally Posted by Sara

He did! He offered to put it in the mailbox I tried to make it super easy by sending a prepaid label, but then I told him I would be just happy to pick it up this evening and that I'd be coming by.

Wow what a douche.

[King Rudi]

You guys are cracking me up this morning.

Laura, I am well versed at derailing most things, including my own threads.

Originally Posted by Turkish Pickle

Good news:

Girlfriend is moving in on May!

We're going to split rent, which saves me about $800/mo. And after I got turned down from buying property (did you know you can't take a mortgage if you don't have a green card/citizenship?).... I'm getting ready to buy a car

Extremely happy how this has unfolded, I get to have my gf with me, and I can afford to own a nicer, faster car

Moving was ass, I realized I had way too much crap. Started picking out stuff as I was unpacking and I've started getting rid of it. For a college student in the last 4-5 years I've accumulated a dumb amount of stuff. Then you have my girlfriend who's just going to pack her Jetta and drive

Dude!!! So happy for you!!! Well done Pickle.....well done.

Originally Posted by Tambohamilton

All things I used to do for climbing training!

Had a woman on the smith machine, next to me last night, that was watching me do my ab work out (L- sits, windshield wipers, oblique leg raises and whatnot). Before she left, she came up to me, while I was working shoulders, and said, "I don't want to embarrass you, but that was awesome." Made my evening.

[King Rudi]

2020....Covid, lock downs, riots, politics, racism, people died....

2021.....Sara sends a cop to pick up her jacket.

Sara, I mean no harm, but I totally see why you are single. You seem like a world class pain in the ass. The assholes personality is starting to make sense to me.

[dinonz]

Originally Posted by King Rudi

2020....Covid, lock downs, riots, politics, racism, people died....

2021.....Sara sends a cop to pick up her jacket.

Sara, I mean no harm, but I totally see why you are single. You seem like a world class pain in the ass. The assholes personality is starting to make sense to me.

[MKSixer]

Originally Posted by King Rudi

2020....Covid, lock downs, riots, politics, racism, people died....

2021.....Sara sends a cop to pick up her jacket.

Sara, I mean no harm, but I totally see why you are single. You seem like a world class pain in the ass. The assholes personality is starting to make sense to me.

She's actually a sweetheart.

We just have an abundance of entitled azzhats in the dating pool she chooses down here. It's really amazing. When some of these guys don't get their way, they lose their minds. I could tell you stories that have been shared with me by ladies I have dated. The number of males who are not men is unbelievable.

All you have to do is be a decent guy and you'll have an embarrassment of riches.

[cmyx6go]

Originally Posted by dinonz

This thread may cause a worldwide shortage of popcorn.....

[MKSixer]

Originally Posted by Turkish Pickle

Good news:

Girlfriend is moving in on May!

We're going to split rent, which saves me about $800/mo. And after I got turned down from buying property (did you know you can't take a mortgage if you don't have a green card/citizenship?).... I'm getting ready to buy a car

Extremely happy how this has unfolded, I get to have my gf with me, and I can afford to own a nicer, faster car

Moving was ass, I realized I had way too much crap. Started picking out stuff as I was unpacking and I've started getting rid of it. For a college student in the last 4-5 years I've accumulated a dumb amount of stuff. Then you have my girlfriend who's just going to pack her Jetta and drive

Congratulations!!! I'm happy for you and look forward to the updates!!!

[MKSixer]

Originally Posted by cmyx6go

This thread may cause a worldwide shortage of popcorn.....

I think we crossed that line back in 2016!!

[M5Rick]

Originally Posted by King Rudi

2020....Covid, lock downs, riots, politics, racism, people died....

2021.....Sara sends a cop to pick up her jacket.

Sara, I mean no harm, but I totally see why you are single. You seem like a world class pain in the ass. The assholes personality is starting to make sense to me.

There's no telling what he may have done if she'd gone there to collect her belongings with him knowing that it's over seing his abnormal reaction to the wine dribble.
Sara did the right thing to use her initiative and stay away.