Dating - Good/Bad Experiences

[nyalpine90]

Originally Posted by qba335i

2+ years total and she was living with me. I spoke with her sister and even though she likes me - she said we are not a good match (both competitive and very stubborn). She is this independent girl-power type.

if she is in early 30s, she wants that ring

[UncleWede]

Originally Posted by MKSixer

Nope.

ATL was a different one. She was Asian and hot AF.

Tampa was 'Murican through and through. The problem was this: She had already been married 5 times and wanted to make me number 6.

Do you know the first question I asked? Are the other 5 still alive!!

You need to remember what keeps happening with HRC, safety first!

[premier3is]

Originally Posted by MKSixer

Indeed. She was hot AF. Tall and beautiful. I'll see if I can find a pic. BRB.

Edit: Will leave up for a few minutes.

Edit: Taken down.

I didn't get to see wtf!! Post up again!

[Turkish Pickle]

Originally Posted by MKSixer

Indeed. She was hot AF. Tall and beautiful. I'll see if I can find a pic. BRB.

Edit: Will leave up for a few minutes.

Edit: Taken down.

DAMMIT I MISSED IT
I'll take your word though

Originally Posted by premier3is

She was like I'll take the train down and we can meet up. I was like who tf takes the train when they have a car you cunt? Lol.

Anyways here's the dilemma. She said she'll come down and take the train since she doesn't wanna drive so far.... but that means I'd have to pick her up and have her in my car and I don't want no cunt like her in my car lol.

Or I meet her halfway, grab some coffee... get peen slurped, and head on home... I am leaning towards halfway to be honest with y'all

If she takes the train she might ask to sleep over and take the morning train, just a heads up

Originally Posted by qba335i

2+ years total and she was living with me. I spoke with her sister and even though she likes me - she said we are not a good match (both competitive and very stubborn). She is this independent girl-power type.

If her sister was like "yeah nahh this isnt working out" sorry man

[FuriouslyFast]

Originally Posted by qba335i

I think this applies to most (if not all) women who approach 30+ years old. At that point they are satisfied with their career and realize that the biological clock is ticking... Add a friend or two who talks about issues getting pregnant and the pressure just increases exponentially...

I agree. Chick I'm seeing now does not want kids & just put in an IUD, thankfully. Sadly, she's not relationship material for me

[FuriouslyFast]

Originally Posted by premier3is

She was like I'll take the train down and we can meet up. I was like who tf takes the train when they have a car you cunt? Lol.

Anyways here's the dilemma. She said she'll come down and take the train since she doesn't wanna drive so far.... but that means I'd have to pick her up and have her in my car and I don't want no cunt like her in my car lol.

Or I meet her halfway, grab some coffee... get peen slurped, and head on home... I am leaning towards halfway to be honest with y'all

Meh, too much work now. Abort.

[premier3is]

Originally Posted by Turkish Pickle

DAMMIT I MISSED IT
I'll take your word though

If she takes the train she might ask to sleep over and take the morning train, just a heads up

If her sister was like "yeah nahh this isnt working out" sorry man

Oh that's a hard no if she asks to sleep at my place.... hard pass lol

[premier3is]

Originally Posted by FuriouslyFast

Meh, too much work now. Abort.

But but..... want that sloppy toppy! :

[FuriouslyFast]

Originally Posted by premier3is

But but..... want that sloppy toppy! :

Get on the apps/sites & message a few. You'll have a few local fucks this week in no time. Lazy ass

[MKSixer]

Originally Posted by premier3is

I didn't get to see wtf!! Post up again!

Originally Posted by Turkish Pickle

DAMMIT I MISSED IT
I'll take your word though


If she takes the train she might ask to sleep over and take the morning train, just a heads up




If her sister was like "yeah nahh this isnt working out" sorry man

Let me know when you guys are available again and we'll schedule a time.

[qba335i]

I checked out the zoosk website yesterday. Filter: 5'7-6', athletic/slim, never married, grad degree, 27-35, no smoking, no kids, white and latino....

The selection of available women in Chicago area was pretty limited. Not impressed - usually average looking. Switched to NYC out of curiosity and could find some pretty girls there.. They limit your search to 100 miles.

[pennsiveguy]

Originally Posted by qba335i

I checked out the zoosk website yesterday. Filter: 5'7-6', athletic/slim, never married, grad degree, 27-35, no smoking, no kids, white and latino....

The selection of available women in Chicago area was pretty limited. Not impressed - usually average looking. Switched to NYC out of curiosity and could find some pretty girls there.. They limit your search to 100 miles.

Yeah, very limited selection here in Minneapolis/St. Paul in my age group. Surprising how many are in their mid-to-late 50s and still have kids at home. Jesus, pry 'em off the tit, granny. No wonder they're still thumb-sucking weenies at 30.

Prospects are grim. I may end up back at the playground with the sack of candy.

[UncleWede]

Originally Posted by pennsiveguy

Yeah, very limited selection here in Minneapolis/St. Paul in my age group. Surprising how many are in their mid-to-late 50s and still have kids at home. Jesus, pry 'em off the tit, granny. No wonder they're still thumb-sucking weenies at 30.

Prospects are grim. I may end up back at the playground with the sack of candy.

The van is in for cosmetic repairs for about a week

[FuriouslyFast]

Originally Posted by pennsiveguy

Yeah, very limited selection here in Minneapolis/St. Paul in my age group. Surprising how many are in their mid-to-late 50s and still have kids at home. Jesus, pry 'em off the tit, granny. No wonder they're still thumb-sucking weenies at 30.

Prospects are grim. I may end up back at the playground with the sack of candy.

I just did a 50 mile search for me. Non smoker, no kids, 24-45 & several obvious fake profiles, several obvious profile of women who don't pay for Zoosk w/1 pic, a few women I recognized from POF & a couple I did not.

[premier3is]

Originally Posted by FuriouslyFast

Get on the apps/sites & message a few. You'll have a few local fucks this week in no time. Lazy ass

I haven't been as lucky as you on getting the quick fuck sessions man... idk, maybe I'm just a picky ass mfr LOL

[Turkish Pickle]

Originally Posted by MKSixer

Let me know when you guys are available again and we'll schedule a time.

ehh appreciate the offer, not a big deal lol

[FuriouslyFast]

Originally Posted by premier3is

I haven't been as lucky as you on getting the quick fuck sessions man... idk, maybe I'm just a picky ass mfr LOL

It's not luck, takes work lol.
Yes, you must be. Stop trying to get a supermodel.

[premier3is]

Originally Posted by FuriouslyFast

It's not luck, takes work lol.
Yes, you must be. Stop trying to get a supermodel.

YES SIR!!! Looking for a 7.25 and up now, not 8 and up!!!! OVER n OUT!

[FuriouslyFast]

Any action today, guys?

The migraine clown I talked about previously did not like me officially calling her out on using that as her crutch to live with sister & collect disability & pretend her part-time receptionist job @ the yoga place (So she can do yoga) & off the books babysitting jobs is the life to live.

That was last night. This morning she asked if I wanted to drop the topic or keep talking about it. Ok bitch, let's get passive aggressive. Won't end well for you! I simply said "If you have something to say, feel free." Have not heard from her since.

If you're genuinely happy with your life as is, good for you. Don't expect this to go beyond FWB. Ever. I'm not where I used to be, but I'm not sitting on my hands not trying.

It all started when I asked her why she never wants to go out & do anything. She cited a whole 2 things she came up with in months then went down migraine lane & here we are!

Before anyone jumps on me, I prefaced what I said to her that I am aware it's a terrible thing and sometimes they are bad enough to cause a person to not function, but I also know, and have dated people, that get them & they all held down real jobs/careers, social lives, relationships, etc.

[FuriouslyFast]

Originally Posted by FuriouslyFast

Any action today, guys?

The migraine clown I talked about previously did not like me officially calling her out on using that as her crutch to live with sister & collect disability & pretend her part-time receptionist job @ the yoga place (So she can do yoga) & off the books babysitting jobs is the life to live.

That was last night. This morning she asked if I wanted to drop the topic or keep talking about it. Ok bitch, let's get passive aggressive. Won't end well for you! I simply said "If you have something to say, feel free." Have not heard from her since.

If you're genuinely happy with your life as is, good for you. Don't expect this to go beyond FWB. Ever. I'm not where I used to be, but I'm not sitting on my hands not trying.

It all started when I asked her why she never wants to go out & do anything. She cited a whole 2 things she came up with in months then went down migraine lane & here we are!

Before anyone jumps on me, I prefaced what I said to her that I am aware it's a terrible thing and sometimes they are bad enough to cause a person to not function, but I also know, and have dated people, that get them & they all held down real jobs/careers, social lives, relationships, etc.

She replied...

My diagnosis is intractable migraine. Not episodic, not chronic. No matter someone else's story, I fight daily. I have worked hard to function at this level. I am under regular treatment from a neurologist to maintain, and if possible keep improving. I know my life is atypical, but that doesn't mean I don't work or that I don't make and have plans for the future. I have to manage my life differently from "normal" because of my condition. If I don't, I will backtrack and I am not willing to go backwards yet again. But please note I said manage not rule. If it ruled my life I would be in bed 9/10 times. I push through.

Sure you are probably going to say I am making excuses, but I have made so much progress I am not ashamed of my progress towards health. You see where I am now without a sense of where I was and how much I have done to get to where I am.

Then go get a job so you can be an adult & leave your sister's house & abusing my tax dollars? I haven't even qualified to use my own tax dollars when I have needed help in the past FFS!!!

[Rmtt]

Sounds kind of odd. As I mentioned, my wife is a chronic migraine sufferer. She would see 12-14+ a month. Botox has cut that back to less than 10, but when she gets one she is out of commission. A pain index of 10.

Vomiting until she dry heaves, light sensitivity, and it has started affecting her vision with wierd effects.

We have MRI's that show progressive damage and lesions, and the neurologist doesn't know where it will lead in the future.

But she isn't drawing disability. And on days she doesn't have one....pain index may be a 3, but she has learned to function at that level as she has been doing for the last 20 years.

[Dang3r]

I think that pain in all ways is felt very different from person to person. I am in total very resistant against pain, but man, there was this eardrum inflammation once, come w/o any warning at night and I never felt such kinda pain again, could have smashed my head against the wall just to make it stop. This was busting my scale into so far unknown heights.

Having rod fever is another thing and a 10+ is highly welcome