|
07-23-2019, 02:48 PM | #4379 |
Colonel
15858
Rep 2,046
Posts Drives: 2022 X6///M Comp Join Date: Aug 2015
Location: NYC
|
The more I read your posts, the more I think you really are a pot head and your screen name has nothing to do with your real name.
__________________
I thought I was a good person but the way I react when people drive slowly in the left lane would suggest otherwise
|
Appreciate
3
|
07-23-2019, 02:50 PM | #4380 | |
Long Time Admirer, First Time Owner
18177
Rep 9,389
Posts |
Quote:
Keep that out of my wheelhouse, I'm on the surprise drug testing list at work, and I want to keep my job. But sure, I'll have another martini |
|
Appreciate
0
|
07-26-2019, 08:48 AM | #4381 |
Banned
3084
Rep 381
Posts Drives: '21 330i xDrive Join Date: Dec 2009
Location: Chicago, IL
|
talking to a buddy after my conclusive date yesterday we realized neither of us really know what to do in a relationship.
this is bad, yes, but can anyone shed light? |
Appreciate
0
|
07-26-2019, 09:11 AM | #4382 |
Colonel
15858
Rep 2,046
Posts Drives: 2022 X6///M Comp Join Date: Aug 2015
Location: NYC
|
What did I miss this time?
__________________
I thought I was a good person but the way I react when people drive slowly in the left lane would suggest otherwise
|
Appreciate
0
|
07-26-2019, 09:19 AM | #4383 | |
Lieutenant General
7444
Rep 11,857
Posts Drives: MY24 G01 AW Msport Join Date: Feb 2008
Location: L.I. NY
|
Quote:
1) can you be committed to your partner and only that person. 2) communication, love ,respect and trust is important. without trust, no relationship will last, or function. if you cant see yourself with 1 person, then you are not ready to be in relationship. it also means no more dating site, no more booty calls lol |
|
Appreciate
4
|
07-26-2019, 09:28 AM | #4384 | |
Lieutenant Colonel
13164
Rep 1,965
Posts |
Quote:
I'll add encouragement, growth and adding value to the other persons life. Along with support them emotionally, we all have bad days. I'd also like to add that I don't mind to assist......in the kitchen......when she is making me a sandwich. |
|
Appreciate
3
|
07-26-2019, 09:33 AM | #4385 | |
Lieutenant General
7444
Rep 11,857
Posts Drives: MY24 G01 AW Msport Join Date: Feb 2008
Location: L.I. NY
|
Quote:
|
|
Appreciate
0
|
07-26-2019, 10:46 AM | #4386 | |||||
Banned
3084
Rep 381
Posts Drives: '21 330i xDrive Join Date: Dec 2009
Location: Chicago, IL
|
Quote:
Quote:
i meant as in what to expect? you can communicate clearly, be "in love" with someone while respecting and trusting them but what is one supposed to do, have her/him be a +1 to one's life or become your best friend or something else?? Quote:
|
|||||
Appreciate
1
King Rudi13164.00 |
07-26-2019, 10:53 AM | #4387 | |
Colonel
15858
Rep 2,046
Posts Drives: 2022 X6///M Comp Join Date: Aug 2015
Location: NYC
|
Quote:
__________________
I thought I was a good person but the way I react when people drive slowly in the left lane would suggest otherwise
|
|
Appreciate
4
|
07-26-2019, 11:20 AM | #4388 | ||
Hoonigan
6894
Rep 3,001
Posts Drives: '09 328i, '98 Wrangler Join Date: Dec 2016
Location: Connecticut
|
Quote:
__________________
"Yeah, but your scientists were so preoccupied with whether or not they could, they didn't stop to think if they should."
-Dr. Ian Malcolm, Jurassic Park |
||
Appreciate
2
Turkish Pickle3084.00 King Rudi13164.00 |
07-26-2019, 12:47 PM | #4389 |
Lieutenant Colonel
13164
Rep 1,965
Posts |
|
Appreciate
0
|
07-27-2019, 07:16 AM | #4390 |
Colonel
8222
Rep 2,250
Posts |
You will know when it comes along. Anyone I have ever seen for an extended period of time always had some type of idiosncrasy that I just couldn't get past no matter how small it may have been.
And I'm sure they felt the same about me. There would always be something that could get on my nerves even if not apparent at first. But when you meet the right one......it's kind of like they can do no wrong. This is the icing on the cake. Stuff that you found the least little bit irritating with others don't bother you....in fact you may even find it all "cute". Even the "shallow" stuff as how they look when they first wake up....etc. I guess what I'm trying to say is that all that superficial stuff no longer matters....you don't even think about it. And you "click" in pretty much every other aspect of the relationship. Now no one is perfect, but if you get what I described above pretty much nailed down, and the relationship seems way to easy.....it's a good sign. Not saying there won't be trying times, but when they come along and you could just as easily walk away.....then you no that's not the one. When you have someone you're committed to making it work with.....and realize that it's not always the other person's faults or hang-ups....that it could actually be you that needs the extra work.....I think it's safe to say you have found a good one. Granted I say this only once you are content and happy with yourself. If you aren't at that point, you may find yourself looking to others to fill that void and that isn't a place you want to be!
__________________
Everybody has a gameplan....until they get punched in the mouth.
|
Appreciate
3
|
07-27-2019, 10:55 AM | #4391 |
Banned
3084
Rep 381
Posts Drives: '21 330i xDrive Join Date: Dec 2009
Location: Chicago, IL
|
Thanks guys, i see your point(s). Honestly reflecting back it's me mismanaging the interaction and being impulsive while reaching conclusions that aren't even there - i'm not blaming myself fully for how it unfolded but i definitely could've done better.
All we can do now is move forward, no? |
07-29-2019, 06:06 AM | #4392 |
Colonel
15858
Rep 2,046
Posts Drives: 2022 X6///M Comp Join Date: Aug 2015
Location: NYC
|
I think this is the smartest thing I've ever read on the internet. So true.
__________________
I thought I was a good person but the way I react when people drive slowly in the left lane would suggest otherwise
|
Appreciate
4
|
07-29-2019, 10:05 PM | #4393 |
Major
1134
Rep 1,366
Posts |
Just now exploring other parts of the forums and finding this thread. I'll post my own experiences at some point, but if anyone ever wants some female perspective in this thread I can at least attempt to answer lol
__________________
#ladydriven Heavy-spec M3 // KW Clubsports // AA x-pipe // Gintani muffler // Macht-Schnell intake // Gintani tune // OMP Seats // Too Many Apex Wheels // Stoptech ST-60 // Cobalt Friction brake pads |
Appreciate
1
King Rudi13164.00 |
07-29-2019, 10:16 PM | #4394 | |
Banned
3084
Rep 381
Posts Drives: '21 330i xDrive Join Date: Dec 2009
Location: Chicago, IL
|
Quote:
whats your "he can be all this but if he does this it won't work out whatsoever" thing? |
|
Appreciate
1
King Rudi13164.00 |
07-30-2019, 01:54 AM | #4395 |
Schmollbraten
12516
Rep 1,985
Posts |
Sub'd
__________________
Citizen of ///M - Town, where too much is just right Some say, that my scrotum has its own small gravity field and when Im slowing down that brake lights come on at my buttox |
Appreciate
1
Turkish Pickle3084.00 |
07-30-2019, 06:33 AM | #4396 |
Private First Class
491
Rep 197
Posts |
Well....It looks like things between me and the widow have come to an impasse. She has always stated that she didn't want a boyfriend right now, but actions have seemed to indicate we were moving closer to that.
Then, late last week, she came over and we had a long conversation about it over dinner where she said that I was getting too serious and pushy and that she still wasn't ready for a boyfriend. The conversation ended and we continued with our date and had a great time. Since then, its been almost radio silence. If I don't reach out, we don't talk. This is the first time in 4-5 months that we've gone more than 24 hours without conversation. I don't know if this is the beginning of the end or what. |
Appreciate
0
|
07-30-2019, 07:11 AM | #4397 | |
Lieutenant General
7444
Rep 11,857
Posts Drives: MY24 G01 AW Msport Join Date: Feb 2008
Location: L.I. NY
|
Quote:
|
|
Appreciate
7
King Rudi13164.00 cmyx6go15857.50 FuzzyPeaches490.50 Rmtt8222.00 MKSixer34192.50 Turkish Pickle3084.00 IllSic_Design2124.00 |
07-30-2019, 07:13 AM | #4398 |
Lieutenant General
7444
Rep 11,857
Posts Drives: MY24 G01 AW Msport Join Date: Feb 2008
Location: L.I. NY
|
|
Appreciate
2
FuzzyPeaches490.50 Rmtt8222.00 |
07-30-2019, 07:18 AM | #4399 | |
Lieutenant Colonel
13164
Rep 1,965
Posts |
Quote:
Give her some space. You already know that she cares about you. Let her sort things out in her mind. |
|
Appreciate
6
nyalpine907444.00 FuzzyPeaches490.50 Rmtt8222.00 MKSixer34192.50 CTinline-six6894.00 Turkish Pickle3084.00 |
Post Reply |
Bookmarks |
|
|