Child Custody

[Graves]

Originally Posted by are0lies

As I said, I think she is bitter about you having someone else in your life, and she has a hard time with that. I sincerely believe that she will calm down once she finds a man in her own life because then she can aim her energy on that relationship. Just remember, kids are not dumb, they see much more than we give them credit for. And, if I were in your shoes, I would tell them the truth, but never in a way that belittles their mom, or that will completely work against you. Everything is temporary.

Best part is she's remarried and was about 10 months after our divorce.

[are0lies]

Originally Posted by Graves

Best part is she's remarried and was about 10 months after our divorce.

Wow! Now you left me speechless. Yep, she's batshit crazy.

[Needbmwpartzz]

Originally Posted by Graves

So hard sitting up there on the stand and not wanting to come out of my chair and go full retard.

Never go full retard!

[GERMAN M3]

Originally Posted by Graves

She at least makes an attempt to let my parents see them since they only live an hour away. However, you are correct given that she is causing emotional harm to the children by punishing them by not letting me see them. Shitty thing is they are so young and cannot see what she's doing. To them, everything looks fine. It's heart breaking. I think the worst part for me other than not seeing them is feeling as though being a father is a curse and punishment. Just because I am a man I am less entitled to children and less qualified. Shit is ridiculous.

Hang in there Graves. Yeah, not to pass judgement, but she sounds like a real piece of work. And the fact that she calls herself a Veteran and is living off the VA really upsets me. I myself served and I can't stand to here when people are abusing the VA system. Damn, she's living off tax payer $$$$. You sound like an outstanding father who is doing everything right and following the rules. Keep your chin up. Hope it works out for you on Monday brother. Keep us posted.

[Graves]

Originally Posted by are0lies

Wow! Now you left me speechless. Yep, she's batshit crazy.

Yup! Lmao

[Graves]

Originally Posted by GERMAN M3

Hang in there Graves. Yeah, not to pass judgement, but she sounds like a real piece of work. And the fact that she calls herself a Veteran and is living off the VA really upsets me. I myself served and I can't stand to here when people are abusing the VA system. Damn, she's living off tax payer $$$$. You sound like an outstanding father who is doing everything right and following the rules. Keep your chin up. Hope it works out for you on Monday brother. Keep us posted.

I'm not perfect by any means, but I give it a hell of a try.

[GERMAN M3]

Originally Posted by Graves

I'm not perfect by any means, but I give it a hell of a try.

Nobody is perfect brother! We all have our flawes and have made our fair share of mistakes. Keeping my fingers crossed for you. Trust me, one day your kids will see it and realize what she did.