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Originally Posted by Chelsea_Tractor
I got a bit fed up of that. At one point I was really used. Fixing things for people. Giving them advice. I am glad my friends that I have at the moment are people you can pick up with where you left off. If one is quiet for a month or even if we meet once a year we're still on good terms. Now I am more selfish with my time and don't do much for others. It feels good to put me first rather than have fake friends. Don't get me wrong if someone was really stuck and desperate for my help then I would but I don't exactly volunteer these days either.
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Same here....I have always been that person that found it hard to say no if someone genuinely needed help.
I just hate to see good people get taken advantage of. But now......I am resentful because I realize that I am one of those being taken advantage of!