Title of the thread: "How do I have a conversation with my parents about taking a hold of my own life?"
Response: "Mom and Dad, I love you and respect you. I expect the same from you since you're my parents. I'm a grown adult and times change. I'm moving out. I'll stay in touch."
It's really as simple as that. The mental gymnastics certain adults will go so as to not disappoint their parents is rather boggling.
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