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      09-19-2019, 02:48 PM   #4652
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Originally Posted by MaximusJ View Post
how do you avoid the "settling" situation. To me it's hard because I know you cant find the complete package somewhere; they're mostly all married with 12 kids, you have to lose some to get some. But every time I end up in a similar situation, I focus on the bad and forget the good. So I end up refusing to settle.
At some point you do a weigh-in, and see if the positive is greater than the negative enough that you can't do without the positive. There are certain traits of my wife that I flat out HATE. BUT, there are far more that I wouldn't want to do without in my daily life.

My dad, who will turn 80 later this year, met his new bride on Tinder They differ in age by less than a decade, although I don't know the exact difference.
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