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Originally Posted by Biorin
I can see that. For me, it just makes something that could be an issue a non-issue. I don't want your shit, I don't want you taking mine. If we'd mutually like to amicably re-negotiate at any point if the situation has changed, great.
I know a guy with ten figures from family money (i.e., his girlfriend didn't build it with him). After proposing to his girlfriend, he literally said "pick a number that makes you comfortable" for the pre-nup, whether she wanted $1m a year of marriage, whatever. She got angry and said that she needed to see what his annual income was and what he had in the bank, because she wanted "her fair share." That after being offered so much money solely for being married to someone! She's not some gold digger either, she runs her own business, etc. Imagine that same scenario during divorce 10 years later without a prenup...
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That's quite different than what I had to consider at the time, and my spouse had no idea about my family's wealth/ poverty situation. I told him I don't like the idea and that I hate them.
Sure, if he would've truly wanted one, I would've signed it.