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Originally Posted by Never_Enough
Had this religious fruitcake (see attached screenshots) waste my time last night. I'm not religious at all, but if you want to be that's cool.
If religion is that important in your relationships, don't you think you should mention that in the very beginning?!
Then I asked why her mate has to share the same religious views as I was curious. Of course, she flips out & then leaves the conversation instead of answering.   She should try Christianmingle.com instead of this app.  |
Dude....I know that you don't care but your entire delivery on communicating with these women is extremely apathetic and heartless. I get your personality, know that this is who you are as a person, applaud you for staying true to yourself but man, your rough on these women.
How I made things work for me was that even if I didn't like them, I would give them no reason to say anything negative about me, show them a good time, sex them up in a way that most had never experienced and then let them know that I just wasn't in a place mentally for a relationship at the time. They would usually thank me, let me know that they appreciated my honesty and then we would stay in touch. I did this for a few years and they would all come back for more, knowing I was unavailable emotionally but they enjoyed the sex. I made them feel comfortable; that was the most important thing. Did I have to listen to their bullshit, of course but only for a few minutes. I had a never ending stream of women who wanted me for only sex. I still have them contact me occasionally. Had one call me Saturday just wanting sex, I of course told her I had a girlfriend and that I wouldn't; which only made her want it more. She kept asking if I was sure. This brings me to another story that I'll share in another post, but she was my therapist. Yeah.....bucket list check mark.
Long story not so short, attract several ladies, if they aren't right let them know but keep it friendly and deliver some mind blowing sex. Each of them will continue to come back and understand that you don't want a relationship. This gives you different experiences, different personalities to learn and different perspectives on different things in life. You also get to have lots of sex with no commitment with different women and aren't really lying or playing them. Honesty and being open really does pay off.
As for the religious women, some of the best sex I've had with ladies from dating sites were those who claimed to be super-religious, especially Christians. The strangest thing was that ALL, not some...
ALL, wanted anal and it was always on the first date. We would start having sex and within minutes they would either put in there themselves or start begging for it. This has always baffled me. In now way am I in any danger of being contacted by anyone in the porn industry anytime soon, but I'm far from small. Most of them display how uncomfortable it is after. If it was small I guess I could see it but I just don't understand the mentality of this. Maybe it was to hook men into wanting to stay with them; but even so why would you do something like that on the first date, not enjoy it and make the man think he can have this all the time if he stays.....and loves Jesus. Even more strange was that after sex, everything was chill for a few hours or a few days and then suddenly everything was about their religion. I'm pretty much anti-religion all the way around. I'm not saying that religion doesn't do good for some people, I'm just not the guy that needs it. I personally would just have a difficult time going to church less than 12 hours after I spent the night intoxicating and sexually violating Ms. Prim and Proper.
I've also heard from some of my friends that christianmingle is nothing but freaky ass women that throw it around like candy at a Christmas parade.