Sporty looking or driving ? 2021 Toyota Highlander XSE. 300 hp, new safety features, plenty of room up to 10 yo kids, 5K towing, quiet and amazing resell. Won't drive like Porsche, but less then $40k loaded with deal.
"Legitimate suspension changes to improve handling"
https://www.cnet.com/roadshow/news/2...der-xse-debut/
on lot in September
https://www.toyotavacaville.com/blog...0launch%20date.