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[Rmtt]

Originally Posted by 1MOREMOD

Correct. Guess that was last year shes 31.

I just turned 45 two days ago...my wife's birthday is next month. She will be 36 and already complaining about passing 35.

[Run Silent]

Originally Posted by Triple Seven

I'm 47 and still dating girls in their 20's.

There is a difference between dating girls who are actually in their 20's and dating girls who tell you that they are in their 20's.

Just sayin....

[1MOREMOD]

Originally Posted by Rmtt

I just turned 45 two days ago...my wife's birthday is next month. She will be 36 and already complaining about passing 35.

What date I just turned 48 on the 8th?

[King Rudi]

Originally Posted by Rmtt

I just turned 45 two days ago...my wife's birthday is next month. She will be 36 and already complaining about passing 35.

Happy Belated Birthday!

Originally Posted by 1MOREMOD

What date I just turned 48 on the 8th?

And to you as well, little guy

[Rmtt]

Originally Posted by 1MOREMOD

What date I just turned 48 on the 8th?

The 9th.

[1MOREMOD]

Originally Posted by Now_Rudi

And to you as well, little guy

Hey dont do that my dysmorphia will flare up and will superhero throw you across a room into a wall.

[Triple Seven]

Originally Posted by Now_Rudi

I'll give you props for being able to pull this off, but my question is how is the conversation? Anyone that I associate with, especially someone I'm dating, has to be somewhat of a conversationalist. Most 20 year olds, that I encounter, make me want to punch myself in the face after about 2 minutes of listening to them.

It's definitely an issue and annoyance, which is why it's mainly short term. No... I don't care "what happened at Starbucks" today.

[nyalpine90]

happy belated birthday
Rmtt
1MOREMOD


whos down for toga party...lol

[Turkish Pickle]

Originally Posted by Now_Rudi

Stay the course. You really have no other option to begin with, but keep your head straight. Tough to do sometimes but try not to let it bother you. Find something to do to keep your mind occupied that rewards your brain. You need to keep some form of positive/healthy dopamine booster going to keep yourself out of the funk. Remember, the search for a positive experience is itself a negative experience and paradoxically, the realization of a negative experience is in turn a positive experience.

thanks man, appreciate it. I know my only course of action is to keep on applying until I get something but the guys I hang with every day are signing offers and I'm like "yeah nice man! let's celebrate" but I want to be able to celebrate for mine too...

not much I can really do other than keep going at it, but we'll see how it goes. also, that last sentence is an interesting approach!

[1MOREMOD]

Did we give up when the germans bombed pearl harbor?

[King Rudi]

Originally Posted by 1MOREMOD

Hey dont do that my dysmorphia will flare up and will superhero throw you across a room into a wall.

Dude as big as you are, I'm sure you could curl my scrawny ass.

Originally Posted by Triple Seven

It's definitely an issue and annoyance, which is why it's mainly short term. No... I don't care "what happened at Starbucks" today.

At least there it's Starbucks. Here it would be bitching about one of their babies daddies being strung out on opioids and not being able to pay for diapers.

Originally Posted by Turkish Pickle

thanks man, appreciate it. I know my only course of action is to keep on applying until I get something but the guys I hang with every day are signing offers and I'm like "yeah nice man! let's celebrate" but I want to be able to celebrate for mine too...

not much I can really do other than keep going at it, but we'll see how it goes. also, that last sentence is an interesting approach!

From experience, patience pays off. It is frustrating watching everyone around you get what they want while you watch it happen. Everything happens in the time frame that it is meant to. I don't consider myself nearly as successful, in comparison to some of my friends, or even people on here; but 5 years ago I would have never thought I would be where I am right now. It's not about where you currently are, it's about prepping and setting yourself up to where you want to be later. Keep prepping and doing the small things that help you later, that's where the focus needs to be. Keep your head up my man.

[1MOREMOD]

Originally Posted by Now_Rudi

Dude as big as you are, I'm sure you could curl my scrawny ass.

Its photoshop, I'm same size as you.

[King Rudi]

Originally Posted by 1MOREMOD

Its photoshop, I'm same size as you.

Riiiiiiiight......

Your neck is bigger than my thighs right now.

I weighed this morning before work. A solid 145 and hating it. I've got to drop 3% body fat before I can start bulking, to do it and keep it lean.

[1MOREMOD]

Yeah I dont see it, probably what keeps me driven. I trash talk the shit out of myself.

That's just a good photo. In clothes I look regular sized.

[King Rudi]

Originally Posted by 1MOREMOD

Yeah I dont see it, probably what keeps me driven. I trash talk the shit out of myself.

Same here. At my current size, I still see myself as fat.

[1MOREMOD]

Yep I'm small. Need another 20lbs

[Triple Seven]

Bromance?

[Rmtt]

Originally Posted by Turkish Pickle

thanks man, appreciate it. I know my only course of action is to keep on applying until I get something but the guys I hang with every day are signing offers and I'm like "yeah nice man! let's celebrate" but I want to be able to celebrate for mine too...

not much I can really do other than keep going at it, but we'll see how it goes. also, that last sentence is an interesting approach!

Your time will come...and it usually happens when you least expect it. Biggest thing is to stay positive and keep networking!

[Rmtt]

Originally Posted by 1MOREMOD

Yeah I dont see it, probably what keeps me driven. I trash talk the shit out of myself.

That's just a good photo. In clothes I look regular sized.

Same here....If I drop any weight I feel like I don't even train!

As for the clothes part....you are probably like I am. I hate wearing anything that you see a lot of these people wearing to try and accentuate their size.

I want to wear something comfortable, looks nice, and fits me without drawing attention.

[1MOREMOD]

Originally Posted by Triple Seven

Bromance?

Circle jerk now that you're here

[Triple Seven]

Originally Posted by 1MOREMOD

Circle jerk now that you're here

[King Rudi]

Originally Posted by 1MOREMOD

Circle jerk now that you're here

That's what I was thinking! New pivot man, my arms are tired.